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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    I agree with One Thousand. There isn't anything necessarily wrong with complimenting a woman's appearance. Direct game has more to do with body language and timing. Saying something like "Wow your gorgeous" sounds a bit like you just met a celebrity and are putting her on a pedestal. If you want to do it in a way that comes across as a confident man without doing too much pedestal stuff (now this may sound counter intuitive to most pickup guys but this is direct game not indirect) say " Excuse me. I wanted to say..... that I think you're attractive....... and have a great style" (Try to pick something specific about her style) " .......I just had to meet you, Hi I'm ____." This is as direct as it gets. But your body language and tone are more important hear. Chest out, shoulders back, and slow movement. Speak slow and pronounced. Throw in some pauses while your at it. It builds a bit of suspense and doesn't come across like your afraid of wasting her time. Also end each sentence on a low note so it doesn't sound like a question or that your tone is revealing that you are not comfortable with what your saying. Practice in the mirror and you will be fine.

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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    Also I would like to add, that the direction that you're going after this approach is straight into comfort. You are skipping attraction phase all togther. That's why direct game is considered high risk/ high reward. You still sprinkle some attraction material throughout your interaction, but basically attraction phase is completely skipped so keep the ball busting to a minimum.

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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    ^Yes x10.

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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    "I think you're gorgeous" is just bad game all around no matter where you're at.

    Cute women know they are hot. They get told that all the time. If you must compliment a woman, do it in a creative way.

    "Hey there. I just wanted to come over here for a minute(<--time constraint) because I heard that I could meet an attractive woman, you wouldn't happen to know where one is would you?"

    This puts her on the spot. If she says "no" then she is basically admitting she's ugly. It's a compliment with a neggish quality.

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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    Lol I highly doubt her saying "no" to that is her admitting she's ugly.

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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    i think this http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...technique.html will solve the compliment no compliment dilemma
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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Lol I highly doubt her saying "no" to that is her admitting she's ugly.
    She is if you frame it that way. After all, if she says no she needs a neg right? So follow up with "Well I guess I'll have to settle for you."

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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    I haven't read mystery's stuff but I personally try resist ever telling any girl she is beautiful, gorgeous, adorable, cute etc whether at night or day, at least not upfront. It carries risk and if you never mention looks upfront it can give girls the idea you are quite used to being around attractive women. Day game I try situational openers so I always have something to go on and it's less obvious your trying to hit on them. I try give the impression I'm just a friendly guy who likes meeting new people and I find talking about something situational, about clothes or opinions much easier. Girls love talking about clothes so use that to your advantage. Instead of 'wow your absolutely gorgeous!' you might say 'I like your outfit and style - it's absolutely gorgeous' your saying the same thing but with less risk of a enlarged ego boost for her or you coming across like drooling puppy dog.
    I can't agree. I find walking up to a woman in the utmost confident manner and telling them you came over to talk to them because they're cute or whatever to have very powerful reactions, even from HB8+ who are older than myself. Opening direct is amazing and gives you a true confidence boost, because once you've learned how to do so properly far most reactions will be very positive.

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    The Mystery Method is intended primarily for Indirect Night/Club Game. In other words, the complete opposite of what you're going for here. There are resources out there, you just have to look in the right places.

    There is nothing wrong with complimenting a woman's physical appearance in Direct Day Game, you just need to make sure you have strong transitions.

    "Wow, you are absolutely gorgeous. Are you smart too or should I keep walking?"
    Very true. I like the direct neg opener, but it should probably only be used on HB8+. If you're going with it, experiment with using the neg part.

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Probably not many girls are going to say 'ok sure let's go' but you show utter confidence in saying it, can recover by being sarcastic afterwards if it really is too extreme for them or lead into something else from there equally as confident. You have to have the attitude your going to get laid no matter what and its no big deal if they don't want to get down and boogie - their loss. When it rains it pours so don't be afraid to burst a few banks and levee's on your missions.
    Yeah, although this gives you a quick answer, it requires an extreme amount of cohones. That attitude is always something good to have. I like this thread, it gets a lot of good posts.

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I agree with One Thousand. There isn't anything necessarily wrong with complimenting a woman's appearance. Direct game has more to do with body language and timing. Saying something like "Wow your gorgeous" sounds a bit like you just met a celebrity and are putting her on a pedestal. If you want to do it in a way that comes across as a confident man without doing too much pedestal stuff (now this may sound counter intuitive to most pickup guys but this is direct game not indirect) say " Excuse me. I wanted to say..... that I think you're attractive....... and have a great style" (Try to pick something specific about her style) " .......I just had to meet you, Hi I'm ____." This is as direct as it gets. But your body language and tone are more important hear. Chest out, shoulders back, and slow movement. Speak slow and pronounced. Throw in some pauses while your at it. It builds a bit of suspense and doesn't come across like your afraid of wasting her time. Also end each sentence on a low note so it doesn't sound like a question or that your tone is revealing that you are not comfortable with what your saying. Practice in the mirror and you will be fine.
    Very true. In fact, I find speaking on a low note all the time to get a lot of smiles. Especially when combined with heavy eye contact. Keep those in mind. They're a turn-on for women.

    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    She is if you frame it that way. After all, if she says no she needs a neg right? So follow up with "Well I guess I'll have to settle for you."
    Have you field tested that? Honestly, it doesn't sound like something a stranger would take well right away. Then again, I've been blown away over and over again by what women will take since I joined the community.

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    Have you field tested that? Honestly, it doesn't sound like something a stranger would take well right away. Then again, I've been blown away over and over again by what women will take since I joined the community.
    Oh yeah. You know the old adage its not what you say its how you say it. My body language is open and friendly and makes it quite obvious its a flirty comment. Eye winks, sly smiles, elbow bumps and other such cues prevent her from seeing it as anything other than me teasing her. If she doeasn't like it, and some don't, oh well.

    its hard to get across these subtleties thru the forum but really it means the difference between teasing and insult.

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    Default Re: Direct Street Game. A few questions

    Quote Originally Posted by SiliconMagician View Post
    Oh yeah. You know the old adage its not what you say its how you say it. My body language is open and friendly and makes it quite obvious its a flirty comment. Eye winks, sly smiles, elbow bumps and other such cues prevent her from seeing it as anything other than me teasing her. If she doeasn't like it, and some don't, oh well.

    its hard to get across these subtleties thru the forum but really it means the difference between teasing and insult.
    It got across quite well. Thanks.


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