First off, a bit about myself. Long time reader, first time poster. I activly practice pandora's box and have found it to be one of the most useful tools that i have ever found. honestly has changed my outlook on women and life in general.
That being said. Im currently speaking with a social butterfly. So this girl is very sexy and always surrounded by a group of guys. which, after the first few times kicking it.. i removed myself from.
There is also one other guy i notice that she is close to, I didnt see him as a threat, but more of the "close friend".This guy is also an acquaintance of mine and somewhat of a friend.
I did notice they were a bit closer than she and I, but disregarded it and seen him more as one of her "puppets" as i like to say. and he did not seem to separate himself from her group of puppets by any noticeable act besides him having all the time in the world to hang out (he works like 15hrs a week, where as i work 40 and have time separated for other women in my life)
so i see her right now about 1-2 times a week.
When we are alone, we hook up (make out and touch, but not yet bang).
We were supposed to hang out last night, she got in a small accident, while waiting for her to get everything taken care of I fell asleep.
I woke up to missing calls and txts saying sorry for taking long and didnt pay too much mind figure i'd call her a bit after work and build anticipation... or wehatever i was thinking (shes quite the lagger, and i play hard to get.)
so i log onto facebook, notice that likes a whole bunch of my pictures and posts outa nowhere (not like her).. and then i go to the "friends" page and see that his status has changed to "In a relationship" with her.Hers hasnt changed.
I hit her up about an hr later to re-schedule out time for tonight, shes down.
She is also though, leaving lovey dovey messages on his wall.
I'll be avoiding the topic for now. Here are the problems.
I feel like a d1ck, cuz this dude and I are friend/acquaintances...some what
I still want to bang her, but now have a jealousy problem (not cuz he is with her, but maybe cuz he banged her first...im guessing).
and lastly. where does this go from here?
I dont want to date her, but i want to be the main squeeze (yes, i guess that is a bit self centered)