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    Default Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    This girl has lived across the street from me for awhile now. I'm 20 and about to be a junior in college.

    I knew I wanted her when she came to school but I was too much of a wuss to make a move. At one point we ended up hanging out at my graduation party, it was awesome, we kept talking a bit after but it petered off after she flaked on me once. That was like 2 years ago and I didn't have the balls to follow up. I've since seen her sporadically by nature of being neighbors, she's always bubbly and damn is she fine.

    Well it's summer again and I'm home, we're both older, she's hotter, I'm a lot more confident. I just dunno exactly how to start. Can't rely on seeing her in person, I know that waiting game and it never works out. I have her phone number. I guess the plan is to reopen the lines of communication with her, slowly but surely, be fun and flirty, see where it goes. Anyone got some advice on what I could say? I just can't think of the right thing. Honestly I could probably send anything, in retrospect I know this chick has always digged me I've just been a pussy. But I love to psych myself out, so any advice helps. Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    Well like you said you can pretty much say anything. May want to try direct game. But what you really want to do is get out of your head. If anything try and get into hers. This helps with you not really worrying about how she perceives you which may make you choke. Already ASSUME attraction. This will convey much more confident body language. She already wants you man, she's just waiting for you to show her you are alpha and just take her. And if you won't someone else will. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    Thanks man, I should know all this stuff but like I said I like to psych myself out. A couple years ago the flirting was PG rated in a way because I was always worried she was too young. So direct game might be a way to show her I've grown up and this time I mean business. Might just drive her wild.

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    Without going into much detail, I texted her, last thing she sent me was "oh haha sup", my friends were over so I replied "adventure time with the bros" hoping she would bite on that. Instead I got no reply, normally she would text me back the next day but this time nothing. The plan seems easy enough - it's been two days now so I plan to text her again tonight or very soon. Question - do I call her out for not responding? Or just proceed as if nothing happened? Thought about sending her something I know she'll bite on and say "oh haha NOW you respond".

    This seems like a blatant sh1t test which I take as a good thing. Any thoughts are welcome.

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    It depends on how much rapport you have with her if you should call her on it. If its still farely new then you want to play it cool. Once you build value and attraction then you can start calling her on it.

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    Pro of being neighbors... our moms know each other. I was casually chatting with my mom and she brought up that neighbor girl was upset as fuck the other day cus she's the captain of the lacrosse team and got passed up for an award or something like that. Like really upset, from what I know she deals with this kind of high school drama all the time. Definitely not gonna bust her balls for not responding now. If anything be that guy who shows her that none of that high school bullshit matters.

    Good advice though BatMan. Thanks again. Game on tonight.

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    sounds good man, ya don't call her out u know it sounds a bit AFC.
    Doesn't sound like u were talking about much anyways that time.

    Draw her attention.. besides ur a college bro home for summer, and she's your neighbor still in hs? Sounds like a good setup to me

    Good luck man

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    I ended up texting her a few days later, she was chillin outside my house with her mom and my mom but she was leaving when I came out. so I texted

    me: lol chillin with the moms?
    her: the best!
    me: almost

    So got into her head again but still nothing tangible. That's okay though the plan is to take this slow and keep her guessing. My other neighbor has a graduation party this Saturday, girl I'm after will definitely be there. I guess the plan is to work my charm there and feel her out. I'm not gonna game hard, if anything keep my distance, talk to other girls/people, give myself to her sparingly. Enough so she's feeling it but little enough to leave her wanting more. It's a family/friends event not a rager so it's not like we'll be hooking up anyway.

    This seems like the most obvious plan to me. After seeing her in person hopefully I can kick up the game/do something fun with her/get her in my room. As always any thoughts are appreciated.

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    What it looks like to me is that your relying too heavily on your text game, which to be fair is pretty weak. You said that you want to show her that youve grown up and this time you mean business but where do you show that in the reply "adventure time with the bros"? Also thos reply didnt give her much to hook onto anyway which is probably why she didnt reply. You could have at least asked a tag question which would require a response. Also when you said "almost" is a very boring reply which again doesnt require a response. You could have playfully gotten her to validate by saying Something like "haha i thought you were more mature than that kiddo" this way she would try to prove that she is just as mature as you are and that she is on your level, this also makes way for playful teasing. Take advantage of text game, it allows you to think of witty and smart replies but id personally say try to hang out or something texting can get boring and should only be a means of communication leading to / between dates

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    Default Re: Round 2 with my younger neighbor

    Thanks for the reply. Yeah my game hasn't been that good. Reason I'm relying on text game in the first place is cus I haven't talked to her in a good bit, didn't figure asking her out immediately was gonna work. Dude I want to hang out with her, I just dunno how to make that leap from not talking to suddenly hanging out. Any tips on how to make that leap would be awesome. For now seeing her this weekend seems like the best bet.


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