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    Default Need help with a D2 close

    I have been texting this girl for around 2 weeks. My text game is pretty good, mostly cuz I copy and paste from the internet to get the convo started, but I am naturally a funny guy, so humour comes easy.

    I was able to persuade her in calling me a few nights ago. We talked, not too long under 10 minutes and I ended the call, also I had her laughing about 5 times during the call, I also asked her what nights she was free from work, and mentioned that I went to a comedy club a week ago. I didn't officially ask her out, as in "Would you like to go out on Sunday and ......"

    I'm pretty sure she is interested in me, she always responds to my texts and she is great at flirting back and she is funny too. Last night we were texting (Which in hindsight I wish I didn't initiate the text)

    It went like this

    I opened with a canned internet opener

    ME"Stop it"
    HER"Stop what?'
    ME"Stop thinking of me with a smile on your face. See your doing ...it ...right...now..."
    HER"(Slap) (Slap)
    HER"That's me virtually slapping you back to reality"
    ME"Bahahahahahahah a"
    ME"I thought that was for applause"
    HER"I slapped ..not clapped"
    ME"Ouch, still funny though.I hope your that fiesty in person. I have a few ideas for us this weekend"
    HER"HHAHA how old are you seriously?"
    ME"I'm young enough to do it often and old enough to do it well" - I got this from the internet, I believe it is a Neil Strauss line
    HER"Who said we're having sex?"
    ME"I was thinking 3 options 1) Help me get some clothes, then food then drinks. 2) Comedy Club, then food then drinks 3) Surprise"
    HER"HAHA and whens this supposed to happen?"
    ME"This weekend, I want to take you out, unless you can't handle it"
    HER"HAHA trying to bait me?If anything you wouldn't be able to handle me buds"
    ME"Let's be honest. I know you like me and I like you. What are we gonna do about it?" - another line a got from internet
    HER"I don't even know you and I am sure you like a lot of girls"
    ME"OK, you know what? Have you ever heard of the lemon law?It works like this: We go out to get a drink.If we don't like each others company after 5 mins we're both free to leave"
    HER"HAHAHA How tall are you?
    ME"Are you at home yet? I thought we graduated from pen pals"
    HER"No, i'm just leaving now and it's past your bedtime. How tall are you?"
    ME"I know. I am bad. Your short so I am taller than you. Most chics like tall guys.Your so curious about me, What's up with that? Are you a PI or something?"
    HER"I'm not short I'm tall and I need to know these things"
    ME"When we meet up you WON'T need to wear heels to be taller than me. I promise. Although heels are sexy." - I meant to say" when we meet up you can wear heels and you wont be taller than me" - I'm 6'4"
    ME"It's getting late"
    HER"I don't want to be taller silly, that's my point"
    HER"Fine, goodnight"


    So basically as I was texting, I was thinking that I am losing her. We spoke a few days earlier on the phone and I hinted that I wanted to do something on Friday evening. I mentioned comedy club, or if she had a good fashion sense help me get some summer clothes cuz I have none - she didn't seem to keen on that one. This same night she for the first time started the texting prior to this there was no contact for 3 days.

    My question is should I freeze out, or should I call and see if she is free on Sunday, I know she has the day of work. I'm thinking freeze out. I'm pretty sure she is interested in me. She is asking how tall I am,(I'm pretty sure that is an IOI) cuz she probably doesn't want to meet up with a shorter dude.

    Any advice seducers. also if any of the above is unclear please ask.

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    It doesn't sound like your loosing her but it can be easy to over do it with canned lines. When you're first getting to know someone, its quite delicate so you want to come across as a serious, albeit fun and intriguing candidate. It's like cooking, not too much salt and pepper, let the actual ingredients of 'who you are' make the taste.

    If you freeze her out so early she might think your not that serious and she may not chase (remember she did ask how old you are, show her some maturity in amongst the canned cocky lines for balance)...she hasn't got enough to go on yet...if you act too needy or confused you'll push her away. Perhaps next time instead of the 3 option dates decide your own option and be very confident in directing that single precise option and persuasive in locking in a schedule. Make those male technical 'where and when' choices really easy for her by organising them yourself and coupled together with some female emotional scenario imagery (exotic location, lounge bar by the beach, jazz band playing etc). I usually always choose food and drink (casual dining/bars, not expensive formal restaurants) as a first date option. It's worked for millions of years. All women love good food provided to them by men. Taking a girl shopping is for LTR, its the equivelent of a cavemen asking a girl out on a hunt and then digging up tubers with her. The caveman will get better luck if he brings back rich meat and exotic food like honey to the clan. Comedy clubs are good for later dates when you are already together or meeting people in the first place.

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    Doesn't sound bad man, u gave her some bait and she bit. A lot of teasing going on that's ok, but not too much. The fact that u hinted at doing 'it' and then ignoring response was impressive really, and to keep it going after that.
    I think the shopping idea u got is from mystery, but its more direct like 'first I want to get some new shoes and a couple shirts, u can come keep me company' and then he pretty much wings the date from there. Instead of depicting wat ur date will be, just boldly state it- again I agree with whitedragon lol. Be concrete instead of throwing it out there, as to get her opinion. I don't know why she keeps askin how old u are? But seems like u don't seem to care for watever reason, which is cool imo.
    Ya I dunno if u really need to freeze her out, just don't text her a bunch of stuff and too much teasing comes off as needing approval, but its ok to be cocky. Just ask her on sat or sun to go on this date u have in mind now, u got her attention so escalate from there.. I hope that helps man cheers.

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    Thanks for the info guys. I took the "Salt & Pepper" advice and let more Easyflow come through during our texts chats.

    The thing is, when she accepted my invite, I morphed into AFC. The actual date night? Started out amazing, it quickly went from an 11 to a 0 in about an hour.

    It was just a bizarre, strange occasion, that I am still trying to figure out, what the hell happened?

    Part of me wants to try to salvage this ship, and part of me is saying "Dude, are you nuts?" Because I think she might be.

    I'm gonna sleep on it for a few nights, and see how I feel after about 72 hours.

    I do appreciate your input.

    Thank you.

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    great post...let us know how it turns out!

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    Glad u setup another, wats so bizarre? Does she hang with the geico cavemen or something?

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    Here is the jist of how the evening went. I also posted this same thread in "ask an expert"

    The setting was this. First date, I was invited to an intimate party. 12 people were there, family and friends. Located in a private room in an upper scale restaurant. By the time I arrived the party was well started. One guest was a baller, ordering bottle after bottle of champaign, all on his bill. Corks were flying, at one point someone was showing personal sex images (penetration) from there phone. My date and her sister kept "attacking" the sisters BF, playfully biting him. Another time someone said "I want some cocaine", loud enough for the entire room to hear.

    I am just trying to paint a picture of the mood and energy in the room. None of this fazed, I've been around long enough and I adapted to the energy of the room. I was making jokes with people I just met, however a number of times my date would poke me and "SSSSHHHH" me, or quietly say "Shut up". I didn't really take her cue, cuz I didn't feel I was saying or doing anything wrong. Of course in hindsight I should have toned it down.

    However, a little later the sisters BF comes to me and says I have offended some people with what I have said. I was totally surprised. Porn is being shown, "I want Cocaine" is being yelled, corks are being popped alcohol is flowing, and somehow I am being offensive? I basically said "If I have offended anyone I apologize" and shook his hand.

    By this time my date was either embarrassed or ticked off or something, she had gone MIA. Most of the party had left, and I didn't go with them.

    As well, the baller who was buying the bottles asked me if I wanted to stay with the remaining guests and have some more drinks. I kindly declined and said my goodbye's. I have to ask, if I was so out of line, why would I get invited to stay afterwards?

    Also I should point out that when things were going good, I was getting major kino, and about 3 open mouthed kisses from my date. Her legs were crossed and I had my hand placed between her thighs. I rubbed the back of her neck, no hesitation from her at all. I did however neg her about a chicken pock scar she has.

    This was on Friday, all day Saturday I was thinking "What the f&ck did I do or say that was so offensive?" Today is Sunday, and I don't want to walk away just yet.

    I want to send a last ditch text, just apologizing for the night ending the way it did, and say

    "Thanks for Friday. Things didn’t go very smoothly and I feel it’s my fault. Unfortunately my nerves got the best of me, 12 new people on a first date :-( Next time I will bring the real me.

    Or I was thinking another route saying something like.

    "We can't fake attraction, the energy I felt between us, the kisses we shared, the physical contact. I am sorry things ended the way they did. Next time I will bring the real me."

    I'm sending a text either way, I just would like some feed back.

    Also is Sunday a god day, or would Monday be better?

    Ask any questions if not clear on something.

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    Ya I wouldn't apologize, wat for? Wat did u say? Its probably minor and besides the people u were chillin with sound a bit crazy and weird anyways lol.
    Don't give her those nice guy lines either, too early I think bro.
    Just say sometin like 'hey had fun the other nite.. where did u head off to by the way, too partied out?' And wait for her reply. Sounds like she's into ya, so be alpha and don't let her think ppl's little comments get the best of you.. nor should u come off as a dick about it.
    Hope that helps bro, and ya u can text a girl on a Sunday watever, just don't over do it

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    Default Re: Need help with a D2 close

    Hey Infrared,

    Thanks for the quick response and the encouraging words. I like the tone of your text better than the 2 I had laid out. I'm gonna send her something along the lines of what you wrote. Or even quote you if that's OK.

    I am prepared to not get a response and that is fine.

    I'll keep everyone updated.

    Thank.


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