Hey all sorry if it is a bit long.
I met this girl at a friends birthday party. We chatted a little but she's a bit of a social butterfly so I did leave her to circulate. I mentioned to a mutual friend that I thought she was kinda cute and asked if she was single, she was.
Later that evening I was chillin with a friend and I noticed she would glance in my direction. An obvious sign she'd been told what I'd said (AFC much?) anyway I thought It'd be best to cut the loss and move on. I said goodbye to her as I was leaving.
1/2 after i left i received a text "guess who". I know it was her she sent two more texts telling me it was her before I got the chance to answer. We chatted a little that night, I negged about her too keen by messaging me so late and she got a little offended but I recovered.
Since that night we'd text. (her initiating most of the conversations) and I set up a date. I took her to the beach. The problem I had was trying to get her to actually accept my Kino! She accepted a hand hold and a palm reading but besides this she remained a bit distant, always want to know what I was going to do before she'd go along.
She does talk a fair bit and seem to be trying to justify herself actions to me. It appears she likes me except the body language is off, its really thrown me. perhaps I played it cool at the party and had good text game but come off AFC on the date?
She gave me a real quick look when I dropped her off for about 1 second which I didn't K-Close. I decided she was maybe the type of girl who takes a little while to warm up and trust a person.
What do you all think?
- Is this worth pursuing or should I just cut my losses?
- was she waiting for something at the end when I dropped her off?
- Should I set up a second date?
if anyone has some good ways to escalate kino that she'd be more likely to accept that would be great.