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    lwl712x is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need help asap - girl likes me for my car!

    Its a long story but bare with me. I really need help

    So ever since iv been in school iv always thought this girl was cute, hot and just perfect for me. Shes in my English class. So two weeks ago she got my number off of a friend but she only wanted to know if i had my car. It wasn't like she wanted my number because she liked me.

    So things went on as usual and we started texting but the problem is that she is sending mixed signals. Like one day she gets super intimate like "ohh come to my place and ill massage your muscles" and the next day its like one word texts. Since she is in my English class we have worked in a group together and she constantly stares at me a couple of times, I have even made direct eye contact and said "you cant just look at me like that and not say anything" and she just giggles. So its been about 5 days and i have slowed down the texts between me and her. I usually text her. she never texts me. So i have slowed down the texts and its working well. I can see that she is getting more interested in me but its still not to a point where i can see sexual attraction between us.

    Today i gave her a ride home and she just asked how long iv been at the school for and how lucky i am that i have a car. I didnt really get flirty while driving because I felt it would have looked awkward. Right now shes going out of town for the weekend and i feel that's perfect because i shouldn't text her. Beucase right now my image in front of her is pretty cool because i a have a car and stuff. So i feel i shouldn't text her because I have a feeling she is going to text me Monday for a ride home.

    Do you guys think i should go along with this because i like this girl and want a relationship with her but shes using me for my car i guess.

    What are some of the steps i should take?

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    Default Re: Need help asap

    I'm going to be blunt here. Maybe it's because I'm not in high school anymore, but it sounds like she's using you for your car. She texted you initially asking about a car. She never texts you first. You almost always text her first.
    You're hoping to see her monday on the ride home.

    It seems like she's using you for your car or when you're bored.
    Sorry again for being blunt.

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    Default Re: Need help asap

    I know shes using me for my car and i totally dont mind if you say that. Thats the truth but i wanna know if i should continue with this. Use the car to my advantage. IDK thats why im on this site.

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    Default Re: Need help asap

    Quote Originally Posted by surferdude View Post
    I'm going to be blunt here. Maybe it's because I'm not in high school anymore, but it sounds like she's using you for your car. She texted you initially asking about a car. She never texts you first. You almost always text her first.
    You're hoping to see her monday on the ride home.

    It seems like she's using you for your car or when you're bored.
    Sorry again for being blunt.
    I know shes using me for my car and i totally dont mind if you say that. Thats the truth but i wanna know if i should continue with this. Use the car to my advantage. IDK thats why im on this site.

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    Default Re: Need help asap

    There's a difference between having an edge to attract women and having a reason women hang out with you.
    I wouldn't pursue her with any effort. Meet other women, give her less attention, see if she chases you for something besides your car.

    That's my advice. Anyone else have input?

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    Default Re: Need help asap - girl likes me for my car!

    You don't want a relationship with this girl. If you want to fuck around with her that's fine. She's using you so you might as well use her, but she's not girlfriend material.
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    Default Re: Need help asap - girl likes me for my car!

    DO NOT continue to see how things turn out. Obviously you like her, but currently the feeling is far from mutual. Here's the deal. Come up something, anything, for an excuse so you can't give her a ride home. Show her what's up.

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    Default Re: Need help asap - girl likes me for my car!

    Quote Originally Posted by DCMoeller View Post
    Here's the deal. Come up something, anything, for an excuse so you can't give her a ride home. Show her what's up.
    Tell her your giving another girl a ride home next time she asks. You could be the school Gigolo taxi co. I'd get a massage out of this girl at least. If she offered it she will potentially do it. At least there might be a happy finish to the story

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    Default Re: Need help asap - girl likes me for my car!

    Ill be blunt here! SHE HOT AS HELL and i wanna fuck her! i thought if i say " i wanna fuck her" the ppl that use the forum might get offended but the reality is that i wanna do this girl. But again like i said shes been fliping like a pancake every other day

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    Default Re: Need help asap - girl likes me for my car!

    Lol nah man, it takes a lot to offend us. If you want to fark her, then fark her, but don't go for a relationship or be her litte bitch. Next time she says she'll give you a massage, say, "Actually I want you to *********" or "No, but we can ****."

    I'm not joking. It'll work.

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