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    Default Advice on what should be done when friend "accidentlly" takes girl...

    Hey,
    Ok - last week in the sun me and a friend(say F) went to a bar with an open area. We sat on a bench/chair table, soon we were joined by guy&girl "couple", after F and the girl left for drink/toilet, I stared conversation with guy (say D), having a laugh, girl came back, talking to her, F comes back, we are all taking having fun.
    Another friend (say M) joins us, we're all talking away, especially me and the girl (say B) as we are sittting next together. As time goes on, B naturally gets closer to me and shows a lot of keano, F & M are both at me to get Bs number...turns out her guy is heading back to his country in 2 weeks for good...
    anyway, I honestly wasn't that bothered about her, was just up for having fun, which I did, in retrospect I could of got her num, but I didn't care enough.

    Fast forward to tonight, me, M, and a new friend, R, were out drinking in a new pub. We happened to talk about F and what happened last week with me and her to R. Next thing...F shows up, M points it out to me, I say nevermind, might see her later. I get a drink, I come back, M says he was talking to her and said I was here. Ok...next thing F taps me on the shoulder...I'm a bit surprised, initially conversation is somewhat awkward, she says oh I will sit here for a min (next to me)...ok fine, we start talking. she even mentioned the guy she was with last time, I asked if she missed him and she said he was gone, life moves on, might see him again soon but sure time to move on. R is on my other side, he joins the conversation, fine I don't mind. He starts to ask all the same questions as I did the previous week (we are both from same area, she is from another country), he asks where u frm, what u do, what u think of this place...about a 25 minute conversation I had already had...all I could do is sit and listen...to her it was all new from this guy, she was in her zone describing all new things to him(espeially now her man was gone). I couldn't do much, I had talked about it all already, I tried to jump in a few times but it was all old stuff from me...we had already exasuted that fluff last week!!! Then he started talking about her field which was very similar and had a lot to talk about...but at that stage the interest was on him, he had all the "new" questions to ask.

    My question is...what could I have done? I didnt want to "amog" R, or diss him at all, he was a friend, honestly just trying to get in on the conversation...what could I do without blowing him out??!

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    Default Re: Advice on what should be done when friend "accidentlly" takes girl...

    Doesn't sound like a friend if he doesn't respect your women. However, if you hadn't told him that it bothers you than he did nothing wrong. If you want to keep him as a friend, confront him about the issue. If not, forget him.
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    Default Re: Advice on what should be done when friend "accidentlly" takes girl...

    If you don't care much about the girl, why is it a problem if your friend chats her up?

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    Default Re: Advice on what should be done when friend "accidentlly" takes girl...

    I did mention it afterwards but he just said he was only trying to join the conversation, which I believe ( maybe im being naive ha!) cos he's a decent dude.

    but ya, like i said no skin off my back... It just got me thinking and I was just curious about what could of been done in the situation if I did want the girl.

    The general situation where you have met a girl one night and found out about her, talked about most of her stories, even negged her few times about those stories. Then u meet her again, initially you wonder what to say now, you don't want to repeat yourself, then a friend joins and starts the whole conversation you already had, what can you do besides stand ther?

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    Default Re: Advice on what should be done when friend "accidentlly" takes girl...

    Quote Originally Posted by 2bpuguru View Post
    What can you do besides stand there?
    Just start making out with her lol

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