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    Hi, i need ideas on what to say to a girl i want to meet, i dont know her, but i constantly see her. She is not in my class. I have been thinking about using a direct opener because, but not so sure because maybe she can smell my intentions. Any ideas? thanks.

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    Default Re: need help on how to approach a girl in college

    Women will almost always interpret any kind of an approach as intentional. If she gives you at least 2 different IOI's just with her body language then I say direct open her and you should be fine. If you can't tell and decide to go indirect there are plenty of openers like opinion, situational, or functional. She will probably think you are hitting on her but the key is to use disqualifiers within the first few minutes of conversation. This will confuse her and she will wonder if you really are trying to pick her up or not.

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    Default Re: need help on how to approach a girl in college

    Can you reccomend me a direct one

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    Keep in mind direct openers are more about your body language than what you say. That's why they aren't the most creative openers generally. So chest out, chin up, make your eyes relaxed, shoulders back and slow movement and speech. Maintaining eye contact is very important. This conveys your confidence and you can simply say "Excuse me...... I think you're attractive, ...........and I just.... had to meet you. Hi I'm _____" Or something similar to this. Best thing about this is that according to Mystery Method you can completely skip the attraction phase if she responds well and go straight for comfort. This is considered high risk/high reward.

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    Default Re: need help on how to approach a girl in college

    ok, after that, how can i stack it? a neg or a dhv story?

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    Default Re: need help on how to approach a girl in college

    Depends on how she responds. Calibrate. If she IOD's then so do you. If she IOI's then ask her some questions about herself. You may be worried about this since it conveys interest, but you basically just did that with your opener so no point trying to mask it. Just go into casual conversation while sprinkling in some attraction material. Also if you feel you are asking too many questions and she isn't investing initially then use the Question into Statement trick. And do you mean teasing or actually negging? There is a difference.


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