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    jalopykid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation messed thibgs up :(

    hey guys!
    I understand that u here are experts!
    so I come for ur advice

    sent a girl I met a txt
    about 20mins after meeting her and takin the number

    "hey crazy face
    good luck at the practice"

    and then I hit send by mistake
    was planning for something morr funny and less friend zone
    obviously she didn't respond,
    how can I save the situation?

    really have a good connection with her

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    Default Re: messed thibgs up :(

    Getting good with game is thinking on your feet even if you feel you slipped up. I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with what you sent unless you were going for something more creative which you don't always need. If she hadn't responded within a day or two then either something happened in your interaction where she ended up giving you her number out of obligation, ......or you actually got the wrong number lol. First messaging a woman is a real adrenaline rush. You feel that this will be your first impression to let her know what kind of texter you are. Is texter a word? Anyways just try and relax, keep it simple and slow and I'm sure you will be fine. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    jalopykid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: messed thibgs up :(

    I usually call right after she gives the. number
    so its the right number
    but something about her knocked me off after the initial interaction
    first time in months that I actually feel bad for not getting a txt back

    bah, got 2 more numbers, not as awesome though..

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    Default Re: messed thibgs up :(

    Different women have different standards on whether or not to reply to a text, separate from sexual attraction. For example, some girls will reply to all texts no matter what. You can text, "OK, see you at 3pm." And she will respond, "OK, see you." A different girl may not respond because in her mind, that text needs no response. So it's the same with the "Nice to meet you" text (although the threshold is higher here). Some girls will reply, "Nice meeting you too " and others will think that that text needs no response because now you've met, and you both have each others numbers. So I encourage you to assume that she either didn't get the text through carrier fault or that your text didn't reach her threshold for reply. Just call her again later or text her to ask her out, pretending this ignored-first-text thing never happened.

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    Default Re: messed thibgs up :(

    don't worry bro u didn't do anything wrong think about it she thaught that there is no need to respond to u're text. even if she did she would respond thank you no more. don't over think it
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.


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