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Thread: Was this an IOI

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    Default Was this an IOI

    I was out with a friend at a club, we were outside talking, and this pretty blondegirl interrupted and said sorry to interrupt you guys, but do you have a light, she asked and my friend said we dont sorry, is that an ioi, i mean there were tons of guys there, but she come up and asked us, and that was it, just wandered

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    Default Re: Was this an IOI

    Good enough. Talk to her and try to continue the conversation. Wayyyy too many factors to know if it is an IOI. Maybe it was an IOI, but to whom? There are multiple guys in your group. Maybe it wasn't an IOI, but you can still play off it and continue the conversation. Even if it wasn't an IOI it was still certainly an opportunity for you to build her interest in you through conversing. Don't concern yourself with what exactly is going on in her mind (because with the time you would use to make the analysis, the opportunity would have passed). Just talk to her and see where it goes next time something like that happens.

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    Default Re: Was this an IOI

    I agree with Sparta. Whilst it's hard to tell if it was a definite IOI, it's an opportunity to build on. You wouldn't go up to a person to ask for a light or the time or whatever if it was someone, from first impressions, that you really wanted to avoid, so it at least means she's won't be denying you a chance to speak to her.

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