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    Default Need Help Knowing Whether This Girl Is Into Me Or Not

    Hey guys, I'd appreciate a little help with this. Basically, I've recently been in contact again with a girl I knew very briefly from years ago. She's reappeared as she's a friend of my brother's friend.

    So I was texting with her for a while. She then texted me randomly one night when she was in a club and she said she was bored and tried to convince me to go up to meet her, I decided not too, for convenience reasons and a little bit of Game.

    She texted me the next morning suggesting we go out for some food. She brought her friend, the friend of my brother's, so I brought my brother to even things out. So we went for food and I looked out for all the usual body language signs, which were apparent. She was sitting opposite me so I could see her legs were always pointing towards me, eye contact.

    She was determined that we split food and my brother an their friend split. So I thought I'd try and test whether she was into me or not. I spoke to the friend and, can't remember where I slipped this in, but I think i did a good job of it. I said "Yeah, I looked at my phone this morning to realise I'd been asked on a date". We all laughed except the target, who, i saw out of the corner of my eye, looked downwards and gave a slight smile. I also found reasons to high five her and noticed her had lingered there a little longer, one of my IOI tests. I continued to DV and interact with her. Later she was resting her foot on my leg, a definite IOI surely. So later my brother gave us all a ride home. So in the car I thought I'd test again. She sprayed me with perfume and tried to put lip gloss across my lips, so I tested thusly:

    FRIEND: You look ready to go on the pull now. (Dunno what you say in America, but going on the pull is a term to mean sarging basically).

    ME: (Laughing) No, this looks like I already pulled so later when people sk why I smell like perfume and have lip gloss on my lips, I'll tell them I went out to meet (Friend) and (Target) and then met this really hot girl and thought "Screw them, I'm going off with this girl".

    As I turned back round, I watched the target and realised she looked a little disheartened. I thought this was a good sign. I spoke to my brother about it later and he said "I'd tell you if I thought you weren't in there, but I can;t see any way that you couldn't be". His opinion did enhance my belief that she is into me, my brother is one of those irritating people with natural Game lol.

    So, any insight would be helpful.

    Thanks.

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: Need Help Knowing Whether This Girl Is Into Me Or Not

    My insight is this,

    stop procrastinating and "looking" for signs, ditch the brothers and friends, and ask this girl out (if you're into her)! If she's down to meet you without the others then try an escalate physically when you get some privacy. Good luck.

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    Default Re: Need Help Knowing Whether This Girl Is Into Me Or Not

    I think you're just asking us what to do because you know you should ask her out but are afraid to (she passed your tests multiple times). That's only natural. But she really seems into you (as you and your brother noticed) and I'm telling you now that if you like her, you've got to tell her you want to go on a date with her.

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    Default Re: Need Help Knowing Whether This Girl Is Into Me Or Not

    Thanks for the help guys, I think you're right, I knew what the next stage was and freaked out. I think I missed my chance, so I'll learn from that. She's kinda stopped bothering to text now, when she did frequently before. I ran into her last week when I was out. She was with a group of male friends but spent a lot if time with me and I definitely got more kino and all that than she gave to her friends. Very confusing lol. Oh well, onwards and upwards .

    Thanks for the advice guys.

    : GeMiNi :&


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