Ok, so I've always been kind of traditional and don't mind getting a drink in for a girl. I'm not sure it's a good thing anymore, I keep reading posts on here saying it's a bad thing.
Don't get me wrong, I don't just run to the bar and come back with a drink, I make sure they know I'm doing it because I want to and they have to do something for it.
Here's an example:
HER: I'm going in a minute, this is my last one *pointing at drink*.
ME: You don't seem like you want to leave *subtly gesture towards myself*.
HER: I really don't! My friend is leaving and, besides, i didn't bring enough money for more drinks. I'd rather stay here. *making direct ye contact with me*.
ME: Well, it'd be a shame to deprive you of my company. Tell you what, if you manage to entertain me in the next 2 minutes, I might get you your next drink.
HER: -Starts teling her life story-
ME: Woah, woah, woah. I said entertaining!
HER: What do you want me to do? A funny dance or something?
ME: That would work.
HER: OK *does funny dance*
ME: *laughing* Ok, that may have earned you a drink, I'm going to get myself one now, I'll decide when I'm there.
Then I'll bring her drink back but put it at the other side of the table and not let her get it and, when she grabs for it a couple of times, say "I said, I'd get the drink, I never said you could have it" and convince her to do something else, I sometimes escelate at this point.
So, should I carry on with this sort of thing or just stop all together?
£: GeMiNi :&