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    Default A Question On Whether To Buy A Girl A Drink Or Not

    Ok, so I've always been kind of traditional and don't mind getting a drink in for a girl. I'm not sure it's a good thing anymore, I keep reading posts on here saying it's a bad thing.

    Don't get me wrong, I don't just run to the bar and come back with a drink, I make sure they know I'm doing it because I want to and they have to do something for it.

    Here's an example:

    HER: I'm going in a minute, this is my last one *pointing at drink*.

    ME: You don't seem like you want to leave *subtly gesture towards myself*.

    HER: I really don't! My friend is leaving and, besides, i didn't bring enough money for more drinks. I'd rather stay here. *making direct ye contact with me*.

    ME: Well, it'd be a shame to deprive you of my company. Tell you what, if you manage to entertain me in the next 2 minutes, I might get you your next drink.

    HER: -Starts teling her life story-

    ME: Woah, woah, woah. I said entertaining!

    HER: What do you want me to do? A funny dance or something?

    ME: That would work.

    HER: OK *does funny dance*

    ME: *laughing* Ok, that may have earned you a drink, I'm going to get myself one now, I'll decide when I'm there.

    Then I'll bring her drink back but put it at the other side of the table and not let her get it and, when she grabs for it a couple of times, say "I said, I'd get the drink, I never said you could have it" and convince her to do something else, I sometimes escelate at this point.

    So, should I carry on with this sort of thing or just stop all together?

    Thanks.

    £: GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: A Question On Whether To Buy A Girl A Drink Or Not

    seems like you handled this pretty well

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    Default Re: A Question On Whether To Buy A Girl A Drink Or Not

    ^Clickndrag is right. You did handle this well, and you can continue do this so long as you are comfortable with it, but you don't HAVE to continue to buy drinks for women. Here's my notes:

    Quote Originally Posted by Gemini View Post
    HER: I really don't! My friend is leaving and, besides, i didn't bring enough money for more drinks. I'd rather stay here. *making direct eye contact with me*
    Shit Test. Straig up shit test. Ridiculously manipulative. You can handle this a number of different ways:

    Direct: "How 'bout you let her go and stay with me. I'll give you a ride home." (If you want further information on how to continue with this one just ask.)

    Indirect: Do what you did, then say she doesn't get a drink until she has "earned" it (just a different way of saying what you did.)

    Shit Test responded with a Shit Test: "I can't imagine why you wouldn't bring enough money." or, "Go talk to one of those guys, *Gesture to betas* I'm sure one of them would love to buy you a drink."

    Me: "How about you give me your number and I'll let you know when to come over once I get home."
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    Default Re: A Question On Whether To Buy A Girl A Drink Or Not

    Thanks for the insight, guys. I thought i was doing ok with that, I'll continue with that then. Thanks for the comments and thanks for the advice, mr one thousand. I had considered responding with a sh1t test of my own, but the target was quite playful. I number closed anyway. I like you're response though, might use it in future. Much appreciation for the comments .

    :£ GeMiNi :&


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