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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    i'm in the camp of not saying anything about PUA.

    It's really nothing more than acting Alpha instead of Beta.

    I think when you start talking about 'peacocking' and 'negs' etc the point is missed in brief conversation...

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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    Quote Originally Posted by 0Rooster0 View Post
    I like the idea of simply telling her what you do, but don't do it to validate yourself to her. Do it because you don't want to hide. If you tell her it because you want to show her what a stud you are, your going to come of as an attention seeker.

    Exactly. It's not about bragging. It's about being honest with your women. You don't tell them right away; you tell them once you know you're keeping them around so they know that you're not playing them. There are going to be other women besides her in your life so it's best to tell her that. If you lie to her you're a douchebag and she won't come back (and I consider withholding imformation she deserves to know dishonesty.) If you tell her the how it is she's going to stick around, no matter how much she doesn't like the situation because you've been honest with her, unlike the other guys in her past.

    Quote Originally Posted by roland777 View Post
    i'm in the camp of not saying anything about PUA.

    It's really nothing more than acting Alpha instead of Beta.

    I think when you start talking about 'peacocking' and 'negs' etc the point is missed in brief conversation...
    If you're still on peacocking and negging you aren't anywhere near the state of mind needed for this level of game. I assume all of you are PUAs. If all you wanted was a girlfriend you would be a one-stop-shop visitor, get the advice necessary, then go on with your AFC life. If you want a minimum of one woman per arm you're going to have to push your mind beyond...well, wherever it is right now.

    If you're AFRAID to tell women about The Game, you're a pussy. Alphas aren't afraid. She can go farking buy it at Barnes and Noble if she wants to. It's right next to, "How to Blow his Mind in Bed." What is this, third grade where we're still keeping secrets from girls?

    Wtf kind of gurus are you guys learning from? Or are you just skipping over the part where they say be honest/open, never hide, and don't care what she thinks of you?
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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    Quote Originally Posted by mr.onethousand View Post
    Alphas aren't afraid. She can go farking buy it at Barnes and Noble if she wants to. It's right next to, "How to Blow his Mind in Bed." What is this, third grade where we're still keeping secrets from girls?
    Hahaha classic, love your work.........

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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    Good point. A lot of guys on here are working toward acting like that. If their game isn't the best or still perfecting it they might not be equipped to handle talking about the game. Wasn't expressing hiding anything.

    As far as the peacocking/negging i just meant what comes up when someone watches Mystery on VH1 briefly.....i wasn't implying state of mind of the pua in question....

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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    Quote Originally Posted by roland777 View Post
    i'm in the camp of not saying anything about PUA.

    It's really nothing more than acting Alpha instead of Beta.

    I think when you start talking about 'peacocking' and 'negs' etc the point is missed in brief conversation...
    I know onethousand is against peacocking, and i am too. To a certain point. I think if your an individual and you dress differently than your peers and find your own style, then good for you. If you are different and an individual, girls will try that much harder to keep you because they know they'll never find another like you.

    As for peacocking for attention, thats beta, childish and will only attract women of low self esteem. Instead of attracting the wide spectrum of women and taking your pick.
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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    Wow, all I can say is Cody is going to make a great guru some day.

    I'm still working towards that mindset you're talking about, especially with my family members. I've never been anyone to share a lot of thoughts or feelings, but PUA has opened me up a lot already. Before I discovered this community, I had a bad boy dream of being able to say and do anything I like - such as telling a woman you want to fark her right when you meet her - but I always thought it to be impossible. David X, Sasha Daygame, Alan Roger Currie and Badboy have proven me wrong and the teachings of PUA/direct game gurus continue to amaze me. Hopefully I'll have the same mindset and size of balls as they have one day.

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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    Quote Originally Posted by roland777 View Post
    Good point. A lot of guys on here are working toward acting like that. If their game isn't the best or still perfecting it they might not be equipped to handle talking about the game. Wasn't expressing hiding anything.

    As far as the peacocking/negging i just meant what comes up when someone watches Mystery on VH1 briefly.....i wasn't implying state of mind of the pua in question....
    Yeah, I just want to help them get there The problem is the difference between what sells and the real deal, and you're right. Negging and peacocking are concepts that can easily be sold on television, not self improvement. Imagine self improvement on VH1 lol. But we have a responsibility to show the difference. You and the majority of guys on this site are great people and I hate to see the media put PUA in with hate groups. We love, appreciate, and repect women.

    "The most important difference between PUA's and players is the fact that we don't lie to or cheat on women. You can only lose women and respect by breaking that difference, so don't do it." - Virgil, The Newbie Guide

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0Rooster0 View Post
    I know onethousand is against peacocking, and i am too. To a certain point. I think if your an individual and you dress differently than your peers and find your own style, then good for you. If you are different and an individual, girls will try that much harder to keep you because they know they'll never find another like you.

    As for peacocking for attention, thats beta, childish and will only attract women of low self esteem. Instead of attracting the wide spectrum of women and taking your pick.
    Lol, yeah I typically save my swimming goggles and things alike for Halloween (well, and swimming.) If you want to dress outlandishly go ahead, but it doesn't have to be like that. Subtle style works just as well.

    I have a Mark Ecko watch that I bought because it was on sale for $50. It's huge and ridiculous. Most people "hate" it, and I agree with them that it's stupid. I like it because it has two clock faces so I can set two different timezones, which is great because I have a friend who is a missionary and constantly travels the world--in a new country every couple months. Whenever I want to Skype her I just check the time to make sure I'm not calling her at four in the morning. It's a pretty cool DHV story, and after all that my watch spends more time on women's wrists than my own. Sometimes I have to beat them with a stick to get it back :P
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    Default Re: Told a girl im dating about the game, she wants to know more?

    I wonder if Mike Tyson gets any extra play from the facial tattoo as of late???

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    Quote Originally Posted by roland777 View Post
    I wonder if Mike Tyson gets any extra play from the facial tattoo as of late???
    Haha he is probably a pua too.


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