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    realdeal03 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Getting A Girl That Has Already Rejected... Sort Of

    Well I met this chick in college and we were cool. She would come in my room with her tight leggins on, on different days. I could never seem to spit any game to her because I felt I was in the friend zone. After the semester was done and everyone was home I wrote her on fb. I asked her if I could ask her a serious question 1st and that we would still b cool afterward. I asked "Can I Put All Of It In." she never rly said no lol but she was kinda pissed, and said I was rude. I think if I would have asked the right way I would have gotten somewhere. Is there a second chance?

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    Default Re: Getting A Girl That Has Already Rejected... Sort Of

    Line would have been better in person TBH.

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    realdeal03 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Getting A Girl That Has Already Rejected... Sort Of

    Thanks I thought I should have. Now we don't communicate, how do I go about trying again without messing things up

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    Default Re: Getting A Girl That Has Already Rejected... Sort Of

    Yeah, that would have been far more effective in person. ESPECIALLY if you guys don't talk/joke like that usually. You need to deliver a line like that smiling and with a light tone when dealing with a friend. She has to think you might be joking, but not entirely sure of it. Then she'll be going over those two possibilities in her head, wondering which it is. Ideally you'll have worked some good body language with her, and done some non-invasive qualifying of your own, built some sexual tension, and also demonstrated high social-value to her beforehand (especially in a college situation) so that the idea that you MIGHT want her will intrigue her in a good way, and make her feel cool. But she has to not be SURE that you want her. Not until the tension is palpable and you're alone together. You need the mystery of the possibility to work in your favor, and that's a delicate balance. Even more so if you value her friendship.

    How long has it been since then? The reason I ask, is ideally I would wait a week at most after a gaff like that before contacting her again. Awkwardness builds as time passes in these scenarios. You might want to play it nonchalant, and comment on a couple of her FB status updates with good humor (not sexual humor) and she'll eventually get over it. Then when you see her next, things will have been smoothed over, ans you can go back to building rapport/tension.

    If she doesn't get over it, she's just way too uptight, and would probably end up being no fun in bed anyway :P

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    Jumpship is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Getting A Girl That Has Already Rejected... Sort Of

    Quote Originally Posted by CoolitDown View Post
    Yeah, that would have been far more effective in person. ESPECIALLY if you guys don't talk/joke like that usually. You need to deliver a line like that smiling and with a light tone when dealing with a friend. She has to think you might be joking, but not entirely sure of it. Then she'll be going over those two possibilities in her head, wondering which it is. Ideally you'll have worked some good body language with her, and done some non-invasive qualifying of your own, built some sexual tension, and also demonstrated high social-value to her beforehand (especially in a college situation) so that the idea that you MIGHT want her will intrigue her in a good way, and make her feel cool. But she has to not be SURE that you want her. Not until the tension is palpable and you're alone together. You need the mystery of the possibility to work in your favor, and that's a delicate balance. Even more so if you value her friendship.

    How long has it been since then? The reason I ask, is ideally I would wait a week at most after a gaff like that before contacting her again. Awkwardness builds as time passes in these scenarios. You might want to play it nonchalant, and comment on a couple of her FB status updates with good humor (not sexual humor) and she'll eventually get over it. Then when you see her next, things will have been smoothed over, ans you can go back to building rapport/tension.

    If she doesn't get over it, she's just way too uptight, and would probably end up being no fun in bed anyway :P
    couldnt have said it any better!
    play it like it was no big deal, and it will quickly turn into no big deal.
    next time you run into her, strike up casual conversation.. but make sure to flirt and create that sexual tension.. or else you'll come off as some dude who gets wierd on the internet


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