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    Wilson90 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Did I blow it with attractive girl at gym?

    So this girl came into the gym that I work at... She was very attractive... She was talking to me about getting signed up etc. I noticed she was looking at my eyes and lips as we were talking for that couple minutes.

    So she went to work out and this other woman was talking to me who I think likes me but I didn't wanna be an ass and say get away. So as the attractive girl was walking pasted she said "bye" to me and I said "see ya later." I missed my oppurtunity to say something to her because the girl next too me was kinda all in my face as she was leaving.

    So I had to take her name down everything to sign her up. It's a college gym and summer break is here and I wont be working there anymore. So I wasn't sure if I was ever going to see her again so I searched her on facebook and sent her a message:

    Me:
    Hey, I'm not sure if you'll remember me. I'm the guy that was working at the gym when you came in today. I thought you were pretty cute & I definitely missed my oppurtunity to say something to you... Not sure if I'd ever run into you again? so I was hoping you had a facebook... I'm notta creeper, I'm totally cool. Promise.

    So did I blow it? Should I have not sent her a Facebook message? What do you guys think?

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    Default Re: Did I blow it with attractive girl at gym?

    Quote Originally Posted by Wilson90 View Post
    I'm not sure if you'll remember me?.

    I'm notta creeper, I'm totally cool. Promise.
    IMO everything beforehand considering you where working was unavoidable. I dont think there is a need for the lines shown above.

    So my message would go,

    "Hey, Im the guy from the gym today, I thought you looked pretty cute & I definitely missed my oppurtunity to say something to you. Hoped you had facebook so we could meet again..."

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    Default Re: Did I blow it with attractive girl at gym?

    You can never blow it!
    i think you had the right approach by throwing in the "im not a creeper" line. cuz there are many women who are sexual "deniers", and would really think your weird for this type of approach without that little added line.
    Ive done this a few times (mostly with girls i meet at parties and look up later) and it never really backfires. They like that you have enough interest in them to actually pursue them, and if she doesnt like it, she just wont respond.

    just DO NOT send a second message if she does not reply. write it off and move on.

    GL!

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    Default Re: Did I blow it with attractive girl at gym?

    Quote Originally Posted by clickndrag View Post
    IMO everything beforehand considering you where working was unavoidable. I dont think there is a need for the lines shown above.

    So my message would go,

    "Hey, Im the guy from the gym today, I thought you looked pretty cute & I definitely missed my oppurtunity to say something to you. Hoped you had facebook so we could meet again..."
    ^^it's a good line as well. but again, women who are sexual deniers may still lean towards not responding, due to their tendency to push advances away. just my 2cents

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    Wilson90 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Did I blow it with attractive girl at gym?

    Should I send her a friends request as well? I was thinkin' about it, but I never did. I thought I should because then maybe she could check me out if she wanted to...

    Or should I just leave it from what its at?

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    Default Re: Did I blow it with attractive girl at gym?

    at this point, i would leave it as is. any further pursuit may creep her out. next time i would send the request the same time as the message. deff not after. if she doesnt get back to you, hopefully you run into her at a party or something and you can playfully tease her about you scaring her by messaging her online.
    where there's a will, theres a way!


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