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    Default How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    Hi,

    I am confused what to do about this girl i really like.
    I know her for a month now through work.
    Last week we went on a date and all seemed nice and well.
    but now i got the feeling she is not really interested anymore (don't really know if i am right about this but i just got a feeling)
    So i really want to sparkle her interest again but i dont want to come across as desperate or anything..
    Should i wait patiently for her to take a step or do i take that step again?

    Can somebody help me out with this

    Thnx

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    Default Re: How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    not knowing the type of woman you are dealing with, i would say.. take a step! call her up and show an interest. if you feel that the spark you had has died down.. re-ignite it by being spontaneous and alpha. call her up and insist that she go out for a game of pool..or bowling.. or whatever.. create sexual tension.. and most importantly of all, HAVE A GOOD TIME.

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    Default Re: How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    thanx for your replay
    The girl i like is a little difficult cauz she told me she doesn't fall in love easily....
    we really had i good time! and maybe i am overthinking it too much and that makes me insecure...
    but will try your advice and see how it works out

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    Default Re: How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    you dont know if you want her to fall in love yet, but you do wana take it to the next level. just focus on that and you'll be fine

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    Default Re: How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    Just like Jumpship said, you have to know what kind of woman she is. If she is the aggressive type or more laid back. Just calibrate to her. Think about which behavior she responded to you the most in the beginning and start doing that again.

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    Default Re: How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    @ batman: that's the problem she giving out all kind of mixed signals that i don't really know which behavior she responds to the most...
    should i just lay low for a while and maybe sparkle her interest again in that way?

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    Default Re: How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    If shes goes on a date with you, she likes you. If shes talking to you, she likes you. If nothing else avoid the friendzone by being a sexual being. You want to keep the relationship moving forward with emotional momentum. If she goes out on the date with you assume attraction and never be insecure. If she doesnt like you then you instantly go out and find a girl that does. Thats what we puas do.
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    Default Re: How to keep a girl interested and not come across as desperate

    Mixed signals deserve mixed signals. If this is what she is doing then my suggestion is to go back and forth with your interest in her. So she starts to wonder what you really want and let her imagination do most of the work for you.


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