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    johnny__123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation Need Help With A Girl I've Known For A Year

    Hello PUA'ERS I am new to picking up girls, I have read a bit about it, however I am stuck on this particular girl she is 20yrs old (I am 21) well basically me and this girl have known each other for a year and we talk all the time (recently it has only been small talk though) and recently she just got back with the 'X' I know I should not but I really like her a lot. how do I get into a relationship with her?

    My second question is there is this girl I used to know, i want to get talking to her again however I can only talk to her via Facebook... how do i get talking to her again and get her number

    The second girl is only to occupy me whilst I hopefully get things on track with girl number one.

    Thank you in advance any help is very much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Need Help With A Girl I've Known For A Year

    Well, its a very common situation you are in my friend.

    this is where your education must begin.
    everyone has their preferences as to what program to invest in or what book to read. but let me tell you what i have found helpful.

    I'm the type of person who believes that there is a logical approach to every situation, and logic behind every person (even women, believe it or not).

    So, there must be a logical way to get women right?
    well i found my answer studying: Vin DiCarlo's Pandora's Box. This breaks every woman down into 9 different categories or 'types'. based on what type of woman you are after, you would use different approaches to obtain these women. simple enough right?

    the real trick is finding out just what type she is, and when your wrong. re-callibrating.

    I'll tell you a few things that work with every woman:
    confidence
    humor
    active sexuality (even if they deny it!)

    so, be confident in yourself! nobody is gona have confidence for you! your the best option out there for them! so act accordingly.

    women love to laugh. this will get you further than you think!

    active sexuality: this doesnt mean to be overly agressive, or act like your some kind of player. just create sexual tension between the two of you. sexual tension is your best friend as a PUA. hope this helps. good luck!

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    johnny__123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help With A Girl I've Known For A Year

    Thank you so much i will look up on him !!

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    johnny__123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help With A Girl I've Known For A Year

    Quote Originally Posted by Jumpship View Post
    Well, its a very common situation you are in my friend.

    this is where your education must begin.
    everyone has their preferences as to what program to invest in or what book to read. but let me tell you what i have found helpful.

    I'm the type of person who believes that there is a logical approach to every situation, and logic behind every person (even women, believe it or not).

    So, there must be a logical way to get women right?
    well i found my answer studying: Vin DiCarlo's Pandora's Box. This breaks every woman down into 9 different categories or 'types'. based on what type of woman you are after, you would use different approaches to obtain these women. simple enough right?

    the real trick is finding out just what type she is, and when your wrong. re-callibrating.

    I'll tell you a few things that work with every woman:
    confidence
    humor
    active sexuality (even if they deny it!)

    so, be confident in yourself! nobody is gona have confidence for you! your the best option out there for them! so act accordingly.

    women love to laugh. this will get you further than you think!

    active sexuality: this doesnt mean to be overly agressive, or act like your some kind of player. just create sexual tension between the two of you. sexual tension is your best friend as a PUA. hope this helps. good luck!
    Thank you so much i will look up on him !! How would i go about girl #2 the facebook girl?

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    Jumpship is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Need Help With A Girl I've Known For A Year

    well as for girl number 2. the best way to get a phone number from my experience.. is to ask. straight up. of course start with some general conversation, then make up a reason you gota leave. i usually go with something like:

    "hey well, my cousin just showed up, im gona go crack a brew! but we should kick it sometime, whats your number?".

    this really hasnt ever failed for me.. and im no ryan goslin.

    same deal as mentioned earlier tho. confidence, humor, and sexual tension once you do get her on a face to face.

    but for the future, if you need help with escalating with a chick.. provide as much detail as to your encounters with them as possible, this way we can put ourselves in your shoes (very likely we have been there, or close to it before) and really be of some good help

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    johnny__123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help With A Girl I've Known For A Year

    Quote Originally Posted by Jumpship View Post
    well as for girl number 2. the best way to get a phone number from my experience.. is to ask. straight up. of course start with some general conversation, then make up a reason you gota leave. i usually go with something like:

    "hey well, my cousin just showed up, im gona go crack a brew! but we should kick it sometime, whats your number?".

    this really hasnt ever failed for me.. and im no ryan goslin.

    same deal as mentioned earlier tho. confidence, humor, and sexual tension once you do get her on a face to face.

    but for the future, if you need help with escalating with a chick.. provide as much detail as to your encounters with them as possible, this way we can put ourselves in your shoes (very likely we have been there, or close to it before) and really be of some good help
    Thank you very much you've been a great help... well girl #1 I have complimented her a few times, I do see her every now and then, I also used to flirt with her, we used to talk quiet a lot about general stuff however recently we've hardly spoken and it has been small talk, sometimes when we text i get late replies after like an hour or 2, and she has recently just got back with the 'X'... she has not flirted with me, when i do give her compliments she replys aww (we mostly talk via text)

    Girl #2 (facebook girl) we used to talk all the time, she has shared her problems with me and all sorts, we also used to talk on the phone for a very long time. however she lost her phone and got a new number so i no longer have her number and the only way i can contact her is via facebook, i did try to start a conversation with her just the general "hows it going yada yada yada" she does give paragraphed replies but after a few exchanged messages she stops communicating

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    Magmadar is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need Help With A Girl I've Known For A Year

    Quote Originally Posted by johnny__123 View Post
    Thank you very much you've been a great help... well girl #1 I have complimented her a few times, I do see her every now and then, I also used to flirt with her, we used to talk quiet a lot about general stuff however recently we've hardly spoken and it has been small talk, sometimes when we text i get late replies after like an hour or 2, and she has recently just got back with the 'X'... she has not flirted with me, when i do give her compliments she replys aww (we mostly talk via text)

    Girl #2 (facebook girl) we used to talk all the time, she has shared her problems with me and all sorts, we also used to talk on the phone for a very long time. however she lost her phone and got a new number so i no longer have her number and the only way i can contact her is via facebook, i did try to start a conversation with her just the general "hows it going yada yada yada" she does give paragraphed replies but after a few exchanged messages she stops communicating
    One thing thats always worked for me..especially if you've had her number at one point..is to just say something like hey im going to need your number again i got a new phone and lost all my contacts.


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