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    Magmadar is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Worth pursuing? - Magmador

    To keep a long story short, I met this girl on Facebook, we talked for a while and met once in person. I had a girlfriend at the time so I didn't play on her signs too much but eventually she told me she liked me and I replied that im too busy with school right now for a relationship but that I do like her as well. We lost contact for a few months and have recently started talking again. She hasn't been as responsive as before so when I asked her whats up she told me its awkward after what happened. So I invited her out on a date and she replied with " I don't date anymore lol " My response was something like well don't think of it as a date how about we just hang out and see how it goes. Sounds to me like shes trying to somehow turn me down like i did to her apparently..question being is this worth pursuing at all? Considering I really do like her..I figured id give it a couple of days and if not ask her flat out if shes interested or not.

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    Default Re: Worth pursuing?

    Could be just a test. Everyone is always looking for love and a good relationship. Usually when a girl says 'im not looking for anything serious right now' or 'I'm not looking for a boyfriend' etc I just try harder and break through that flimsy barrier. It's usually a sh!t test to see how much you do like them. Seeing as you panned her off before, she maybe just testing your true interest back in return. Fair contigency plan really.

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    Default Re: Worth pursuing?

    true..but I don't want to keep asking her out and come off as clingy and lose the interest that may or may not be there. Text or Facebook she will reply to lets say maybe a message today..then ill text her once or twice over a 3-4 day period where ill get no reply..then the next day ill get one. Like i sent her a message asking hey what are you doing later maybe 2? days ago..got no reply..then i sent her that message about a date last night and got a reply this morning. Sent her the reply about just " hanging out " and still havent gotten a reply yet, and I know shes seen the message since shes posted other statuses.

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    whitedragon is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Worth pursuing?

    Well no offense but your still undecided and that AFC's you pretty quick. You either have to sweep her off her feet or send something extremely emotionally charged. There can't be any 'maybe's', or 'what are you doing's?' - you either have to give her a solid reason to reply and generate interest or ask her out with a definate irresistible offer she would be mad not to accept. If she does refuse delete her number, her loss.

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    Magmadar is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Worth pursuing?

    Undecided in what, going out with her? Its not really indecision more of an indifference.Would I like to go out with her? Sure..Would I be hurt/sad if she says no? Not really. Just wondering based on the back story and that fact that we both liked each other in the past if it was worth going for. I figured id give it a few days and just flat out ask her if shes interested at all. No reply or a no I planned on just deleting her number.


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