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Thread: Now what ... ?

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    Default Now what ... ?

    Ive been freezing out this girl for like 5 days now and shes tried to get in contact with me several times. My question is once i end the freezeout if she asks why i wasnt replying what should i say? As in should i come up with an excuse like ive been busy or something or my phones been playing up. And what tone should i have in the conversation (texting) should i be how i normally am or a tiny bit less playful so she validates more? I was thinking that if im how i normally am she might forget about the freezeout and think everythings back to normal now. Also i know the point of a freezeout is no to let The girl know that your ignoring her otherwise you come off as needy, but i want her to wonder in the back of her head whether or not it was her fault, how would i achieve this?

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    Default Re: Now what ... ?

    Seems like you are in a pretty good spot with her chasing you. Kudos. My suggestion would be to, yes, play it like you were busy. The trick is getting her to let it go. She may push the topic of exactly HOW you've been busy, but you are alpha and don't have to explain yourself....at least not right now. Depends if you want rapport with her.

    If she pushes the issue just simply state that you have been busy and change the topic. Make it into a fun conspiracy if you can. Change her mood, not her mind. Try to pick a topic that is more emotionally engaging than her wanting to know where you have been. This will increase the chances she will let it go and talk about whatever you bring up. Hope this helps and good luck.


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