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    Default Help with keeping her interested

    pretty much been dating this awesome girl for a bout a month , just had a bout 3 crazy days in vancouver with her but i feel like its dying down, dont have as much to talk about any more

    feel like i may have let her in too fast but need advice on how to keep it interesting, were not really texting each other any fun stuff any more

    might just be a phase or something, but need some help, really like her n i dont act clingy around her or ne thing, i just need to keep it interesting any advice?????!!!

    please!

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    Need to know what level your physical relationship is at and can then help more. Have you slept with her yet?

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    A little more detail would help. But from what you said so far I could suggest one thing..........there is absolutely nothing wrong with taking a step back and letting her miss you. It is true when they say absence makes the heart grow fonder. Spending such an intense time together there has to be a downslope in the relationship. Doesn't mean things are going sour. It just means it's an opportunity to become closer and more intimate emotionally, by being apart. Give us some more info and we will be able to give you further details.

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    what kind of more info do u want

    weve slept together a lot some times 3 or 4 times a day... i dont smuther her or anything,, no idea whats going on,

    what kind of more info do u want?? little stressed about it but i dont let her know that .. little more talking going on then yesterday

    thanks!

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    or maybe not talking to her now seems really weird


    think its kinda fucked to be honest

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    If you have been spending every day together the last month and have slept together almost everyday for 3-4 times then yes I think it's a good time to let her miss you if you feel it is dieing down between you two. This is the honeymoon phase and it is bound to end. It happens to all relationships so it's normal.

    If you continue to see each other and it seems to keep falling apart the more you try to keep things interesting then this is what I suggest you would do and just take a few days off from each other. If you guys are on good terms then this, by no means will hurt your relationship, but strengthen it.

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    awesome guys this forum is awesome,

    i was also in a weird mood the last few days kinda got a feeling it could all be in my head..

    but I'm gunna back off pretend like everything okay..
    if something is weird tonight then i for sure know something is up

    I'll post again after i see how the next few days.

    thanks guys

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    k so went to the party last nite , she ignored me all night, when i went to talk to her she barley said anything and walked away, obviosuly something is up..

    when i was leaving seen her out side asked her wtf is her problem , its pretty obvious something was up, even other people were asking me

    and shes like i cant have this talk with u while i'm drunk, we'll talk tomorrow

    so we all know what that means...

    thing is i just spent 3 days in Vancouver with her and everything was more then fine, it was amazing, we got back on Sunday n Monday was awkward so was a bit of Tuesday

    so i don't get it man, what went wrong with in the a days, she could barley look at me????

    i either think its an out side source, a lot of guys at the resort want her that r jealous, this fat kylee girl whos a lesbo wants her SO bad and as i was leaving i heard her calling her name to talk to her.. hurt pretty bad considering its been one day since we had such an amazing time in Vancouver

    That's all i can say . i tried so hard not to be really emotionally connected with her cuz i new sh1t like this was gunna happen, but in Vancouver i fell for her , she took me every were , we did everything .. i don't get it .. im lost

    i will point out she kinda was with someone before , not really but technically ya .. so re bound?? out side source?? bee]en a month moved to fast?? faaack couldn't even sleep last night thinking about ,,

    any thoughts ???

    Pretty bummed out

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    Default Re: Help with keeping her interested

    And THIS is why I always say to date multiple women.......


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