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    thePHAN is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Stuck in Progress with Girl I am Seeing

    OK - so I'm currently seeing this girl, we talk often we see each other often.

    I'm direct with her i make her laugh, i take her to cool places, talk for hours over the phone and we enjoy our selves in general.
    She knows i like her since i told her. And her response was she wants to stay single for a little while longer.

    But she constantly texts me, we cuddle, there's physical contact but i can tell she wants to keep it here for the time being. Have not kissed her there was recently a situation where i told her if she gives me a kiss i would stop tickling her cause shes heaps ticklish and she told me wouldn't you rather me kiss you on my own terms ? (the situation didn't end bad)

    My view is she is either holding onto me cause she likes the attention i give.
    Or shes actually taking me seriously and is treading carefully. (more leaning to wards this one)

    What i do know about the girl is that she gets a lot of attention from guys, she plays with them, i gladly took the challenge lol.

    I definitely know that she's interested but right now being single to her is more appealing i want to change that.
    How do i progress from here?

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    First off, I feel telling her your interested before she felt the same gave her too much power. I feel like your her back-up plan instead of the alpha she can't wait to get to know. Now you seem to be a toy of hers.
    With that said, Im not even sure your doing enough pushing through her barriers. Sexually escalate, she has some form of attraction towards you, Id say push till she stops you and when she does, realize its not rejection, just wait a bit and start again. Sexual escalation is 2 steps forward 1 step back. Sorry, that I didnt have more advice, but your situation is very complicated. Hope this helps.
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    thePHAN is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    So this is what happened before i told her i liked her.
    She is oblivous to hints like ANY HINT she wouldnt get at first i thought she was just fucking with me but shes really oblivious in general lol. When were together i can tell from her body language she just wants to enjoy the moment and doesnt intend to push or pull back from what we are, so i couldnt tell if she was intrested. But then she always brings me up in "If your my BF scenarios" That being said and me being a direct person i told her i liked her. I know how to control how much power she has, what i want is to be able to make her see dating me is in her best intrest then being single.

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    She's playing games with you. She either wants you to make a much more aggressive move physically (unless she's really traditional and wants to take it slow - but in any case she should still kiss you) or you've friendzoned yourself and she is stringing you along for attention. You could try a freeze out and see if she chases you but like Rooster said, its kind of too late so a better option is to waste no more time, completely sweep her off her feet, take her somewhere romantic and kiss her, then escalate towards sex. You hsve to knock those barriers down. It's very common for girls to put up barriers like that and say all sorts of off putting things but you just hsve to try before another stronger guy does.

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    Quote Originally Posted by thePHAN View Post
    what i want is to be able to make her see dating me is in her best intrest then being single.
    It's love not a court of law or business deal. Talk with your kisses and not with words.

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    Ok she was in my bed and we were mucking around when i was cuddling her and she doesnt mind me caressing her unless it directly her lower half lol. i ended up kissing her neck she didnt mind then i moved towards her lips she tilts her head away. then i stopped for a few minutes and tried again same reaction. Ill go with the freeze out time shes over.

    I get bored of girls pretty easily and its rare for me actually stay interested cause i find em boring, but this one is interesting to me.

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    The thing is i freeze her out time to time to show her that she cant do what she wants. but then after the freeze out it goes back to same relationship. So you'd think being more physical would be the option that didnt work either.

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    Seriously man your not being physically aggressive enough. If she's in your bed and letting you kiss her neck she's giving you all the opportunity in the world but is playing hard to get. Keep caressing, keep kissing, grab her hand and put it on your d1ck and pull out all stops. Don't take no for answer unless its really a 'no!'. Some girls need a while to get warmed up. Kiss her and caress her upper body for as long as you can, she's bound to get wet eventually and give in. Some girls like to be taken aggressively (obviously within reason and within the law) but that also come back to being persistent. She's being an immature cock tease and your being timid boy. Be a man, take her or leave for someone else. The problem is now you have created a pattern of trying and failing, trying and failing and she will see that as consistent weakness whereas if you sweep women off their feet straight away at the beginning and do want you want to do instead of saying what you want to do you have a better chance while the window of opportunity is open. Your either shagging her, caught in no man's land or tuning other girls. Your in no man's land and need to push yourself into the other options. Go hard or go home.

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress!

    well I was a situation like this with only difference that I did'nt say to her that I liked her. Anyway for me best thing was that I simply told her that we hang out and cuddle but it is weird that she doesn't let me kiss her and got bit angry but next day she came back and we started kissing. It is kind of make it happen or walk away maybe freeze out after that not for long but little while. Worked for me hope this helps

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    Default Re: Stuck in Progress with Girl I am Seeing

    I suggest you tell her you've met a really cool girl. Use a version of push/pull with her. Create a little tension in her. I'm sure there are guys here who can elaborate on this! I know when I have done this it has driven girls crazy! Good luck. Ciao, FauxPas.


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