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    Aless is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Totally Blowing it now!

    So I've been gaming a girl from my college and this is the same one that I am going out with on Friday. However now I don't know what to do. I might have blew it through texting. We've met around 4-5 times prior to this date and I'm sure I've made strong impressions however my latest texting seems bad.

    Background info before the text: We made a bet, she lost and now has to take me out(going to ice skating place). We talked today in person about it a bit, liek 5 minutes before class and I said I don't like doing things on friday afternoons which is relevant I believe.

    So today our text:

    Her: I'm like 2 mins away!

    Her: Public Skating 12-3 Fri, Sat 1-3 pm. They have Fri night, but i have a family dinner...

    Me: Thats fine actually, friday afternoon works for my schedule (it does actually, but i still said i didn't want to do fri afternoons)

    Her: Okay so what time do you want to go?

    Me:U can pick me up at 1:30 hah

    I've been framing it as her wanting to date me, so this was another way of doing that. Or at least my attempt at it

    Her:What? Lol I have to pick you up?

    Me: Yea, Don't you pick up ppl your taking out

    Her: Haha yeah but I wasn't planning to pick you up

    Her: we shall def discuss this more tmrw lol

    Updated*
    Should I basically get a meet up for tomm. then and still get her to pick me up or should i do it?

    And no response since. Only been an hour and I'm not terribly worried. If this doesn't work out with her I'm fine but I'd rather keep this going, she's GF material. I want to just freeze out if no response but idk. I don't really want to apologize or say something, because its not alpha but I don't want to lose her like this. Suggestions guys?

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    surferdude is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Totally Blowing it now!

    She's just teasing you back about how she doesn't usually pick up guys for dates. You've played it fine. Don't overthink things and go with the flow.

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    Default Re: Totally Blowing it now!

    Agree with surferdude. It seems you are fine and you two are being playful. Ultimately you'll probably do a meet up and you could just tease her later. Also I wouldn't worry too much about screwing up. You can make one or two mistakes with a woman and still recover quite nicely. Keep up the good work man.


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