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    JoeThePro is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Encountered A Problem Going Out Alone

    So I was out on my own at a club the other night and a girl I was running game on happened to ask me where my friends were. I did not know how to respond to this. I didn't want to seem like a loser going out by myself but at the same time I didnt want to let her know I was there to run game and not hang out with friends. How would I respond to this if it comes up again?

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    Default Re: Encountered A Problem Going Out Alone

    I would think the issue isn't so much that you went out alone, but that you didn't have any friends. Let me explain...

    When you do go out alone to a club try and meet EVERYONE. The bouncers, bartenders, even the people attending that night. If you show that you are social then when she asks you where are your friends just say "They're already here" or something similar. And the more often you attend the same venue then you will be a regular and gain more status with the staff and other regulars. Those are your "friends" you go out with. Now it's not such a strange thing you came out alone because you don't have to be responsible for taking any drunk friends home since they arrived some other way. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Encountered A Problem Going Out Alone

    Hey this was an excellent question/post! I to like the lone wolf approach, but am always afraid of being exposed. As I get better at this I will start to include a wing. I feel I need to be a little more comfortable in my new PUA clothes before I model them to the community! Feedback? Ciao, FauxPas.


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