I need your opinion on something if its possible. I am quite new to the game and im trying different things now.
Last two nights i had some problems that i want to get our opinion on.
1. I was in this club with 2 friends and things were pretty OK, approached this one hot girl on the dance floor and things were going good.
The dancing was pretty hot, starting making out and dancing dirty. she kept telling me that "I'm this player that i do that all the time with every girl on the club" and my response was a small laugh and that 'i am very picky about girls'. Kept making out in the club and then we take it outside. she kept telling me that we're not having sex... and i was pretty ok in my reaction i think 'we're the one that's missing out.' we made out in some corner for over 30 mins and it very intense. one thing that i remember is her telling me that im going home alone and will think about her and i replied that its gonna be the other way around coz she couldnt have me. in the end i couldnt get her at m place, or go at her place. her farking tram was coming and she just said 'bye'. disaster i tought...
2. Second night was in this bar with quite a lot of company, guys-girls. at some point I'm at the bar ordering some shots and i see this girl standing with her fiend almost next to me. So i opened. She was drinking a long drink and i said ' hey what is that u are drinking' in a disapproving voice. She answered something, and i continued : ' are u kidding me? u are supposed to have some shots at this place, u suck ( in a smiley way). Im getting u a shot.' turned to the bar and didn't talk to her. until the shots came... i touch her hand and say ' Hey, come, here's the shot i promised u'
She says ' no i can get shots at the bar'
me: ' u can get 100 shots at the bar but this is just the one i promised'
I could tell by her face that she was really intrigued by all this, and this was my goal. So i though so far so good.
After the shots she says : i cant believe u wanted to argue with me before about the drink and the shots'
Me: No, i just told u a truth that's all.
We exchange names and then i think its the point that i ruined it.
Start asking random questions like:
What do u do for living/studying and other bullsh1t... and actually said ' i like your looks'
In a bit it was over with her telling me she has too go back to her friend and me acting cool saying : yeah enjoy.
So i could really use your advise about this 2 situations.
For the first, how could i get her back home
For the second how should i have processed after that kind of 'rude/neg' opening that i used.
Waiting for your answer hopefully,