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    almighty99 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default 2 bad 'closings' - opinions needed

    I need your opinion on something if its possible. I am quite new to the game and im trying different things now.
    Last two nights i had some problems that i want to get our opinion on.

    1. I was in this club with 2 friends and things were pretty OK, approached this one hot girl on the dance floor and things were going good.

    The dancing was pretty hot, starting making out and dancing dirty. she kept telling me that "I'm this player that i do that all the time with every girl on the club" and my response was a small laugh and that 'i am very picky about girls'. Kept making out in the club and then we take it outside. she kept telling me that we're not having sex... and i was pretty ok in my reaction i think 'we're the one that's missing out.' we made out in some corner for over 30 mins and it very intense. one thing that i remember is her telling me that im going home alone and will think about her and i replied that its gonna be the other way around coz she couldnt have me. in the end i couldnt get her at m place, or go at her place. her farking tram was coming and she just said 'bye'. disaster i tought...

    2. Second night was in this bar with quite a lot of company, guys-girls. at some point I'm at the bar ordering some shots and i see this girl standing with her fiend almost next to me. So i opened. She was drinking a long drink and i said ' hey what is that u are drinking' in a disapproving voice. She answered something, and i continued : ' are u kidding me? u are supposed to have some shots at this place, u suck ( in a smiley way). Im getting u a shot.' turned to the bar and didn't talk to her. until the shots came... i touch her hand and say ' Hey, come, here's the shot i promised u'

    She says ' no i can get shots at the bar'
    me: ' u can get 100 shots at the bar but this is just the one i promised'

    I could tell by her face that she was really intrigued by all this, and this was my goal. So i though so far so good.
    After the shots she says : i cant believe u wanted to argue with me before about the drink and the shots'
    Me: No, i just told u a truth that's all.

    We exchange names and then i think its the point that i ruined it.

    Start asking random questions like:
    What do u do for living/studying and other bullsh1t... and actually said ' i like your looks'
    In a bit it was over with her telling me she has too go back to her friend and me acting cool saying : yeah enjoy.

    So i could really use your advise about this 2 situations.
    For the first, how could i get her back home
    For the second how should i have processed after that kind of 'rude/neg' opening that i used.

    Waiting for your answer hopefully,

    Regards, Kris

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    almighty99 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: 2 bad 'closings' - opinions needed

    I see ppl are reading the post but please some reply would be very helpful...

    Any thoughts are welcome

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    Default Re: 2 bad 'closings' - opinions needed

    If you want to take a girl home for a ONS you have to find the specific girls in the club who could potentially do that. A girl you kiss in the bar may not go home with you so you either have to show interest in seeing her again, accept it's a bit of fun for the night or push pull her earlier so you are the one rejecting the kiss. Ie try get her chasing you rather than her controlling the situation. Girls heavy engineer the situation at clubs so you need to improve your observation of who'd doing what, otherwise you will be wasting time with girls that are going to be difficult or won't give you what you want. Use time constraintsat clubs, try asking girls to accompany your group to a new better venue and things like that to keep them on your toes. In clubs try talk to lots of girls but choose your actual targets wisely. Often girls will decide what kind of a night they're going to have before they go out so watch their behavior carefully so you can be more efficient. Your closings weren't bad - you got a make out session and shared a shot. Rather than thinking you failed in closing consder that you may have chosen targets that are not as open to a close that night.

    Rather than focussing on individuals in a club I suggest doing group shots and group things getting a few girls hanging off your party spirit. It keeps it in a party atmosphere, avoids general individual chit chat and anchors you as an alpha male they have to chase.


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