The gut feeling I have right now is, give it a chance. I'm already in a bit deep! Do I end it now to save her pain, or see where it goes?
The short story: She would be a keeper if she was hotter.
The long story: I'm 34 and wanting to go for young hot women that I was too afraid to chase when I was younger. I know I have value, I'm tall, fit, attractive and intelligent. Just beginning my career in the fitness industry which I know women like, but I'm also still a work in progress. Still building my social circle that will bring easy access to hot women but that is starting to come around.
She's 25, a good age for me. This girl's main issue is she needs to lose 40-50 lbs and she's only 5'3 so it really shows. I think she has 7-8 potential once the weight comes off because I saw her pictures from just 3 years ago when she was 120 lbs. She had a few rough years and let herself go. She has a great personality and will be a catch if she pulls it together. She's making progress that's already showing, going to the gym several days/week. Great sex, anytime, anyway that I want. That's hard to beat.
Further, I've been grooming her for an open relationship, She's interested and wanting to try it. She was even trying to convince her friend to have a 3 some with us (it was her idea). The problem is my instinctual physical attraction for her is lagging right now. I met her for dinner downtown and there were cute, slim women in tight mini-dresses everywhere, on a Tuesday evening! I live in a great city for young singles!
That's a lot to give up, but so are the endless women that I know I have a chance with already. I worry if this 5 can remain secure enough when I'm hanging with 8s and 9s.
Am I taking my old weak way out with an easy girl, or do I have the best of both worlds, with a girl who's going to actually help me meet hot women, and may become one herself?