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    Default Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    The gut feeling I have right now is, give it a chance. I'm already in a bit deep! Do I end it now to save her pain, or see where it goes?

    The short story: She would be a keeper if she was hotter.

    The long story: I'm 34 and wanting to go for young hot women that I was too afraid to chase when I was younger. I know I have value, I'm tall, fit, attractive and intelligent. Just beginning my career in the fitness industry which I know women like, but I'm also still a work in progress. Still building my social circle that will bring easy access to hot women but that is starting to come around.

    She's 25, a good age for me. This girl's main issue is she needs to lose 40-50 lbs and she's only 5'3 so it really shows. I think she has 7-8 potential once the weight comes off because I saw her pictures from just 3 years ago when she was 120 lbs. She had a few rough years and let herself go. She has a great personality and will be a catch if she pulls it together. She's making progress that's already showing, going to the gym several days/week. Great sex, anytime, anyway that I want. That's hard to beat.

    Further, I've been grooming her for an open relationship, She's interested and wanting to try it. She was even trying to convince her friend to have a 3 some with us (it was her idea). The problem is my instinctual physical attraction for her is lagging right now. I met her for dinner downtown and there were cute, slim women in tight mini-dresses everywhere, on a Tuesday evening! I live in a great city for young singles!

    That's a lot to give up, but so are the endless women that I know I have a chance with already. I worry if this 5 can remain secure enough when I'm hanging with 8s and 9s.

    Am I taking my old weak way out with an easy girl, or do I have the best of both worlds, with a girl who's going to actually help me meet hot women, and may become one herself?

    Big thanks!

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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    Okay, I think if your attracted to her but dont want to go out with her becuz your a pua. Then I just want to say, a pua does what ever the fark he wants regardless of what others think. But at the same time I dont want you to settle for a girl just because she gives you sex. If you feel you can do better, than do better. Choices are hard my friend, decide which one you'd be better off making. As a pua you got to be decisive in your decision making process, make it on gut instinct and be confident in your choice.
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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    I've farked some fuglies in my life. sex was good, but bro', I much prefer hot chicks. No contest. Besides there are hot girls who would aslo welcome a open relationship - the fun is finding them

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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    "Keeper IF she was hotter."

    I thinking going into a relationship thinking/wanting/anticipating the girl is gonna lose 30lbs is not good. She might lose a little weight but it is more likely she will eventually gain weight if anything(like from 25 to 35). If you want to date her you probably should accept her current state.

    It's just my opinion. I'm around your age too. Doesn't matter who I date I look for the girl who takes care of herself.

    Open Relationship: omit above!

    Summary: if you like her cool just don't expect to change her.

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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    Best of both worlds for a while then move on completely. Make the threesome happen, tell her you want an open relationship and start talking to the girls in mini's. Your 34 and probably not going to marry this girl, if you meet someone better she will likely become your ex quickly, so go seek and destroy.

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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Best of both worlds for a while then move on completely. Make the threesome happen, tell her you want an open relationship and start talking to the girls in mini's. Your 34 and probably not going to marry this girl, if you meet someone better she will likely become your ex quickly, so go seek and destroy.
    Hilarious. You all are brutal :P

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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    I don't know. He may think this girl is marriage material. That's kinda vibe i got.

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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    If I was a fitness instructor I wouldn't be marrying an overweight girl who is accepting - even suggesting - an open relationship. Why take a 5 with potential when you can have an 8+ with a guaranteed figure

    If you really loved her for personality above all else you wouldn't care about her figure or wouldn't be looking at an open relationship.

    Im sorry if I'm being brutal but I know too many guys who are too gutless to break off with someone and too gutless to commit 100%. Being a good pickup artist means you have to be good at breaking off too otherwise 'despite all your rage, your still just a rat in a cage'. Be the lion with a pride.

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    Default Re: Should I keep a 5 with potential? LONG!

    The advice has been really helpful. After thinking more about it I feel that I should have fun with her as long as she keeps her cool and is making progress on herself.

    Who said anything about love either :P The reason I'm open to this girl is because she only became overweight a few years ago, before that she was a size 0 (seriously) yoga instructor. She's been back on track and has already lost 15 lbs. The sex is good and she's willing to play wingwoman on top of it.

    And yes my industry is nuts, at professional seminars women outnumber the men 3:1. One of my married clients texted that she wanted to kiss me and that her husband is cool with it, but I told her to keep it professional. I can get play without that kind of headache.


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