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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Well, you don't start freaking out every time you meet a girl from the staff, right? You say hey, and go on your way.

    One of the trick is to imagine she is someone else you don't have any special feeling for. Like the cleaning lady, or the secretary of your office, or whatever. You want to be as nice/polite/distant/flirty with her than with these people. You can also imagine she is family, if it helps
    i wont be freaking out about it , im actually pretty calm about the situation , i new from the beginning was rebound but whatever liked her n had lots n lots n lots of sex just didnt know when it was going to happen,

    ill keep calm b polite but dont give her any attention

    thanks!

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    okay so to day when i pulled into work she drove up to me n just kinda started telling me about her day , i just acted normal didnt say overly a lot,

    but then after she got home, she came on fb n just kept talking to me , i was trying to b polite without saying alot

    she said a few more things then
    asked how i am

    i answered saying im confused about the audit( someone messed up there cash out )


    n she said thats no what i mean but i probably screwed up my cash out( i new what she meant but was ignoring the questions)

    she kept talking like nothing happened.. i was trying to polite then
    she asked me to do a favor

    "i cant figure out when i work
    sh1t can you do me a favour at some point tonight?"

    before i answered she said no dont worry about it then asked me again, then told me nvm then asked a third time

    she kept asking didnt wanna be rude espeically when she knows i see her schedule every day cuz i do the night audit

    I eventually told her cuz i was a little annoyed then i told her i gotta finish my work im really behind

    i dont know what to do she keeps talking to me, i planned on start that 3 week race n today was day 1 didnt go as aplnned, she thinks everything is jsut normal n were not together,

    what should i do, shes talking to me like normal i think to get something out of it ?

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    The 3 week rule is about YOU not contacting HER. Its perfectly fine if she contacts you. And you did the right thing being short with her and telling her you have work to do. Giving her only 10% of your attention is a very good idea. Your "trying to be polite" attitude is perfect. It will ensure that you don't react to her when she tries to talk to you. Keep being short with her and behaving as if you have better things to do. When she finally questions why you are being that way with her then just let her do most of the talking. Just be a puzzle she is trying to solve. She will do most of the work for you because of your distance. Then there are more techniques after this phase.

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Are you writing in English? You're all over the place.

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Are you writing in English? You're all over the place.

    sorry about the spelling, working the midnight shift having a hard time staying awake

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    The 3 week rule is about YOU not contacting HER. Its perfectly fine if she contacts you. And you did the right thing being short with her and telling her you have work to do. Giving her only 10% of your attention is a very good idea. Your "trying to be polite" attitude is perfect. It will ensure that you don't react to her when she tries to talk to you. Keep being short with her and behaving as if you have better things to do. When she finally questions why you are being that way with her then just let her do most of the talking. Just be a puzzle she is trying to solve. She will do most of the work for you because of your distance. Then there are more techniques after this phase.

    k awesome im gunna keep dong what im doing

    apologize if that was hard to read , 3 am working the midnight shift having a hard time staying awake...

    what kind of techniques are after?

    and when she does finally ask me to talk or comes over n says why have u been acting this way ( which she should clearly no why ) what do i say

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Lol I work at night to so I know the feeling. Well eventually she may want to have "the talk." I won't say what to do when she says or does this or that because you have no idea what she will do. All you need to worry about is your mindset.

    Your mindset is going to be very non-chalant. That you are happy without her. Let her do most of the talking, in fact, don't even bring up the relationship at all. Let her bring it up otherwise you could just push her away. Let her come to you and chase you.

    Also under no circumstances ARGUE. Don't try to CONVINCE her of anything. Simply allow her to have her opinion on the relationship and you have yours. Essentially agree to disagree. If you are worried about being friendzoned, don't be. You may have to enter friend zone for a bit. Now I don't mean allow her to talk about her and other guys. Just be there in a non-sexual way. It's not that difficult to get out of the friendzone with anyone especially an ex you DID use to sleep with.

    The last thing I want to add is all this advice will only increase your chances and not guarantee anything. Because your relationship was very short and you were probably a rebound, her ex may still have a stronger pull on her than you do. Essentially he would need this advice a bit more than you. But thats besides the point. I just want to warn you to be cautious. Because if it doesn't end the way you want it, you can always learn something from it.

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    from everything i look at about my situation good chance its not going any where ,

    whatever way she goes i guess, see what i can do to improve it but atleast im prepared for for nothing happening

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    I think you are doing fine for now man, cheers

    Her contacting you and asking for a service is clearly her testing her power on you

    I'm a bit unsure about what your reaction should be. I would probably not accept, unless it was really vital (if a non-attractive girl from your work asked a service, what would you do?), but it might feel like you're pissed off, which is bad. But if you do it, it means she has power over you, which is bad too. That's the problem with girls, some of them are really masters at that Game..

    What are the other guys opinion on accepting/refusing the service?

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    Smile Re: HELP getting her back

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    I think you are doing fine for now man, cheers

    Her contacting you and asking for a service is clearly her testing her power on you

    I'm a bit unsure about what your reaction should be. I would probably not accept, unless it was really vital (if a non-attractive girl from your work asked a service, what would you do?), but it might feel like you're pissed off, which is bad. But if you do it, it means she has power over you, which is bad too. That's the problem with girls, some of them are really masters at that Game..

    What are the other guys opinion on accepting/refusing the service?

    ok thanks for the advice again, im gunna let it ride its self out keep what im doing,

    im not pissed off at all i new it was gunna happen from the start just didnt know when...


    i do prefer to be with her but worst comes to worst dont get back together, its nice to know i can still pick up hot girls ,


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