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  1. #31
    christianh758 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    k i am working and she just asked me when my break is and if i can come down n eat with her what t do ???????

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Maaan, overthinking! She just started running the race too She's trying to show you how awesome her life is, don't let it disturb you

    Actually, my best advice I could give you is to get another date. Make it your number one occupation, go back to girls you had left on the hook, go to online dating sites and send hundreds of messages, whatever, I want you to have a girl you will spend sometimes with in a pub, a museum, or whatever

  3. #33
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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    ok so ill take ur advice ,pretty sure theres a few girls i can hang out with

    i went down to get my food n she was at bar n i just started cracking jokes with the servers n when i got back i txt the server
    saying thanks for the food
    n got a txt back saying " fine i didnt wanna eat with you any ways"

    the server is her brother ..

    she must of took his phone to txt me , since she doesnt have one

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    And there my friend, you took a big step forward she's pissed off even though you haven't done anything special, that's great for you just don't let it slow you down, stay alpha!

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    ahah thanks .. i was pretty emotional in the morning when i wrote those first entries which is understandable only been a week , most of the time i dont care or act like i dont

    i did hear from a fellow working tho that said : ya she says ur ignoring her . im not tho

    just being short n polite..

    i dont know what i should do if she wants to have the talk ..

    man u guys have helped so much i cant express my thanks

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    you know what this whole situation is stupid, i need to change the person i am..

    not to get her back but for ME.. i accept what happens time to move n improve my life

    i let things get to me way too much

    im never that person people always wanna b around
    always making up excused not to go out n have fun

    n i wanna change that, start enjoying live and focus on one thing at a time instead of trying to do alot of stuff, starting n never finishing it

    i wanna be that person that everyone wants to be around n hang out with.. n i dont know how

    im always demonstrating low value

    my whole life i never got any sort of attention or approval from any and thats what im always seeking, which i shouldn't be ... worried about what ppl think n say

    I wanna improve my life n the person i am but have no idea how...i wanna do this for me not for anyone else..

    totally missed out on opportunity to go swimming tonight n playing volleyball with ppl..
    came up with so many excused no reason so stupid... no idea why


    im not depressed or anything but would love to change somethings about me n be a better person but i got
    no where to start


    sick of the way things r going n wanna take charge , my social life is honestly horrible.

    i feel like if i can change this i can find out what i really want in life n will boost my confidence

    girl wise iv never had a problem picking up girls.. hot ones too, but never get them to stay

    the last two girls i was with were beautiful and interestings but were only things im sick that
    want more than just a thing.. iv been asking for so much help cuz i wanna change me

    i dont wanna become someone i dont wanna be but im not happy being me

    im motivated to turn everything around right now!!!!!where do i start ?

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Haha, you've passed the "cape", congrats

    This is a great objective! The short answer is: try to imagine who you want to be, and become this guy!

    Do you know what you would look ideally, physically wise / style wise? Well, go to the gym, go shopping!

    You want to be a more social person? Start contacting people you haven't seen in a while, look for events around your place (I've found that meetup was great for that), start an activity, like a sport or something (martial arts? windsurfing club?), and if you don't like it, stop it and move on until you find the thing that talks to you. Discover all the fun stuff going around in your place, and learn to enjoy it. Then, start inviting other people to it

    You're on the good track man

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    i totally understand where ur coming from, thing is i live on an island and everyone works at the same resort as me

    sick of being at parties n forcing a conversation with ppl to make my self look busy cuz no one comes in talks to me

    i recently moved from ontario to bc so i dont know too many ppl

    im not trying to be negative but trying to speak the truth

    might need to move off this island to vancoucver which im thinking about doing, but i feel like its just running away from my problems

    mannn life is hard at the moment, being with that girl made me realize im not the social person i thought i was .. kinda of a loser when it comes to big goups of ppl nothing interesting to say , forcing conversations that r pointless n not fun..

    its like i dont know how to have fun.. but lately i havent
    never been the guy that attracts ppl n makes the best of every thing

    thats what i wanna b n its hard here

    the guy evyerone wants to talk to parties , interesting , can make ppl laugh , n no idea where to start .. literately theres only work n party time which im not part of... too tired to finish this..

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Oh, I know the feeling, and a lot of people here do too

    But you have the motivation to get better, so you will; the difference between social people and you is not much actually, they just tended to go outside more during middle school and stuff, and are more used to it, it's just a matter of habit

    How many people are there in your island? I find it weird that they would ALL work on the same resort

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    Default Re: HELP getting her back

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Oh, I know the feeling, and a lot of people here do too

    But you have the motivation to get better, so you will; the difference between social people and you is not much actually, they just tended to go outside more during middle school and stuff, and are more used to it, it's just a matter of habit

    How many people are there in your island? I find it weird that they would ALL work on the same resort

    there is more ppl that live on the island but we dont hang out with the locals , for some reason the ppl of the island HATE the staff.. ots of problems

    dont understnad why after we broke i was fine up to 3 days .. n now a week later its buggin me like cazy... i feel like this 3 week race is me for me to get over her..

    oh by the way thers a huge going away party for a staff member on sunday . shes gunna be there.... how do i get over her by then... or not care! cuz shes the center of attention at the parties ppl love her..

    how do i focus on just having fun ? n not payin attention to her

    i thnk the best thing to do is get off this island n get to a city n have fun again... im letting this get too me too much... over think everything.. just the way i am

    she works in the kitchen an i can tell a few kitchen staff have it out for me now . shes probably vented to them a few times.. even tho i didnt do anythng but be the rebound ...

    its hard to go out n do stuff due to my shifts.. 3-11 three times a week then 2 mid night shifts.. not trying to be difficult but speaking the truth...

    gunna ask to get my shift changes , might not work thoo

    how do i get over this quick..? i feel like the 3 week race is to get over her as well?


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