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    Cool What men and women need to fall in love

    Hello, I am new here and I am a girl.

    Since you may wonder why I am here being a girl, I would first of all like to say that I find pua interesting and the psychology behind it is what fascinates me. I have read a bit about pua before, and probably found out about pua because I have met pua's in the past. So I come in peace

    So the other day I met a guy, we were out on a date. We hadn't been sitting there talking for more than 10 mins or so about more neutral stuff when he asked me if I knew that there is a difference in how men and women fall in love. I said I did know (I have read a study about it before), and he continued saying that men often fall because of the physical and women need more of a "connection" to fall in love.
    And I know all of this, and pua wouldn't exist if it wasn't for that.
    He continued to talk about this, also mentioned that it is good that women can be more liberated bla bla..
    Does this seem like a pua thing to mention? For me it was a big sign that this guy isn't very serious.
    Other things I noticed about him; laid back, confident, direct.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    I have never heard that routine myself, but it is possible he may have learned a thing or two from PUAs. Or he could just be a player which by definition is very different from a PUA. It may even be a simple explanation that he was trying to impress you with his apparent knowledge of male/female psychology (not the best topic to show that btw). Just keep going and take notes on any other signs you notice about him and give us an update. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    What he's saying is nothing groundbreaking - he could have read it in any mens health magazine.

    BBC's 'secret of the sex's' documentary may interest you - they actually did brain scans of male and females looking for emotional reactions. Men were severely lacking biologically but some men were able to overide it to show emotions in a stronger way and it was suprising which subjects did so. Women were severely lacking in technical or factual memory, men in emotional. Men would loose interest in facts however when confronted with a beautiful women (eg good looking newsreader).

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    Thanks for the replies

    I know what he said isn't groundbreaking, but it was all out of a context, that's why I wonder. He knows from before that I am into science.
    He was also steering the convo into sexual and daring stuff all the time after that and past relationships. He wanted us to make statements about ourselves and have the other guess if it is true or not.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    Sounds like a fun game. To see if you can tell the other person is lying. Of course that's almost impossible but still fun. If he plays the 5 question game or strawberry fields he's definitely touched on some PUA.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    "he continued saying that men often fall because of the physical and women need more of a "connection" to fall in love. " - this is a routine and what he is describing is attraction not love.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    Quote Originally Posted by rs5096 View Post
    "he continued saying that men often fall because of the physical and women need more of a "connection" to fall in love. " - this is a routine and what he is describing is attraction not love.

    rs5096
    So you are saying that this is a canned routine? Is it called something?
    Either way he was leading the convo to sexual, daring and spontaneous stuff, but I don't think I reacted like he wanted me to.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    There are different methods of pick up, but there is a general linear progression. What he was telling you was a factual truth (assuming he meant attraction instead of love), which is a part of the linear progression. There is no particular name but it was a part of his routine.

    Honest truth here: You can ask questions on a PUA forum - nobody is going to stop you. But know this - it is a forum which is generally directed at men. IMO its not healthy for you to know this stuff.

    Next time a guy comes up to you, which in ordinary circumstances will seduce you and make your life altogether better, you'll be saying oh wait a minute I know that routine??

    Knowing this stuff is gonna fuck up your love life.

    As they say, a little bit of knowledge is a dangerous thing.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    I kinda agree with rs5096. Don't over think your interactions from here on out. Most of the people in this forum aren't trying to master PUA but they are trying to get rid of anxiety when meeting women.

    I know a ton of guys that aren't PUA but are pretty successful at picking up girls. You would probably get them confused as being a PUA but in truth they are doing what men have always done; which makes the world go around and around.

    I would argue a AFC doing Pick Up is going to appear more natural than a straight up AFC going after you.

    And one more thing! I would have kissed closed you Porcupine.

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    Default Re: What men and women need to fall in love

    Lol this is becoming interesting. These guys have a point. You dont want to play "Where's Waldo" trying to figure out if the guy is PUA or not. There are varying degrees. Most guys may learn one or two things or don't know about PUA at all. While only a few are considered gurus where everything they do is considered pickup. If you are that curious your best bet is to just be open about your knowledge of PUA. Chances are he's never heard of it. If he has or is hesitant to reveal himself just let him know that you have a profound interest and would like to know more. We do like to talk about PUA as long as someone wants (and is ready) to hear.


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