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    Guy#1Chris is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with this Hb8 thats i've been texting

    so i met this girl a while back texted back and forth with her for a while, then i stopped speaking to her for some time and i stumbled across her number again. I'll post the conversation and any advice or criticism would be greatly appreciated

    This conversation happened last week sometime
    Me:
    I'm speaking to you
    Her:
    Haha yes you are
    Me:
    It requires you to continue conversation with me, I do believe how are you is thr accepted social norm, we can just skip to ur welcome
    Her:
    Hahahaha ok I will continue the conversation if you please
    Me:
    Next time invite me out and we might continue this conversation,if we lucky =-c
    Her:
    Haha why if we lucky
    Me:
    First need to get an invite and then we can think about the lucky part


    This conversation happened after i hadn't spoken to her for about 4days after our previous conversation

    Me:
    So what kinda trouble has Lauri been getting up to today? A lot I hope
    Her:
    Haha ah I wish I was getting into trouble I'm a nerd. But you on the other hand
    Me:
    So you got those cute nerd glasses and that innocent look on? >*nerd* haha what is it, that you think I do all day?
    Her:
    Haha no, no I don't do glasses but I have got my thinking cap on haha just cause trouble =D
    Me:
    Haha think I'm going to need to borrow your thinking cap sometime this week oh yea of course, I just let stink bombs off during an exam so I don't have to write it
    Thanks

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    Default Re: Need help with this Hb8 thats i've been texting

    The convo seems fine. She is responsive and contributing. The only thing is that it seems you are in a neutral zone and will have to escalate very soon. Otherwise you are running the risk of friend zone and/or floater. (I think thats the term). Keep with the bantering but now take the convo to the next level. Get her to a point where she is trying to find things out about YOU and then you can qualify her.

    A few simple tips to get her to ask you questions is to build intrigue. Everytime you say something try to leave something open for her to ask you about. Something like "You dont even want to HEAR how my day was..." This is an EXTREMELY basic example but the principle is the same. Once you get her used to asking you questions she will be more likely to ask about YOU as a man, and not just about how your day went. This is a good time to qualify and show her you are a challenge. (which you should be showing that you are a challenge from the beginning. But this is where she will be more receptive to the idea of you being a challenge.) Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Need help with this Hb8 thats i've been texting

    Yea thanks it did help. She just keeps on fading on me as well, where she stops replying. When you say escaluate what exactly are you referring to? Is that when I get her to be asking me questions

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    Default Re: Need help with this Hb8 thats i've been texting

    Getting her curious about you is part of the escalation yes. After that you want to qualify. Mind you the important part of qualification is not so much the qualifying. It's the state of interest that follows it that is more important. This will show her you are interested in her other than her looks. After you qualify then the bantering and teasing can be minimized so that you can begin flirting and building rapport. Part of being an interesting person is to be interested.

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    Default Re: Need help with this Hb8 thats i've been texting

    Thanks so much man! will let you know how it goes


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