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    Default Game Plan Revised. Thoughts?

    Ok, so basically, I was in an LTR for 4 and a half years (1 1/2 years married). I discovered the book, The Game, In a book store during this LTR. Obviously I never used any of this to get girls but did test some of the stuff to see how it worked when talking to people. It never failed to hold attention. I separated from the marriage at the start of October. I had 3 months single in which I started to try stuff out. I ha developed many theories (I like theories lol). Not a lot of success. Then I entered into a new LTR lasting about 5 months. Now we've split up, I'm back to sarging. I learned more in a relationship that single weirdly lol. Trying new things, I have gotten further this time.

    So I have re-thought my game because, whilst certain aspects were working, the way I was doing it before gave me no way to improve upon and got me nowhere. And I think I've figured out why. So here is my new basic gameplan until I improve and work for higher results. Any improvements or insights would be greatly appreciated:

    First thing I decided was to stop making excuses not to open sets. I'd spend a long time waiting to find a set with a target. It was either "not enough files in that one", "no target"', "nah, she's not hot enough". I have now come to the conclusion that it doesn't matter. As I'm a rookie, I just need to work on my game a little bit, so now I'll approach the first set I see when I walk into a venue, whether all male, all female, mixed, couples whatever. I see them as warm up sets. Plus it's all good for social proof. Also, I'll find a set with a target ifF I set-merge or set-jump.

    Next, I decided to focus more on body language, voice tone etc. I didn't give this enough priority before, but I realise that it is crucial. Delivery of lines, routines and stuff is everything. Also working on confidence and stuff. I've always been a person who doesn't care what people think, but I've taken that to a new level now.

    Thirdly, Im gonna stop thinking about it too much. A canned opener and then maybe a deliberate DV story is, for now, necessary to get me started but after I over think it. Im getting past this thanks to you guys here and PUA forums, much respect guys . Plus, I kiss closed and number closed one night when I wasn't even trying and another night I spent glued to one other girls face (lol), again not trying. Granted the first was a friend of a friend, but it still counts lol. The second was my friend's sister (awkward lol), who's a friend of mine anyway. Looking back, mainly at the first. I tried to break down what I did. I have had some insights. Before, I scrapped how I normally am entirely to take on the persona the book suggested. Now I see it more as an extension of myself rather than a completely new way to be. I'm naturally a social person and I get on with practically everyone, I just give off a different vibe to girls, so I'm using this stuff to give off a different one.

    Not that I didn't expect to fail before but I convinced myself it wasn't a possibility, so when I don't succeed it bummed me out and I'd leave a night out feeling down. Now I go in there, not expecting to fail, but accepting it as a possibility. My new outlook is that every failure is a good thing because I learn from it. I look back and figure out what went wrong and work on it next time. I've never been rejected by a set but I know when I'm losing them because I run out of things to say or whatever and I eject. But, with my new inner locust going, this doesn't phase me, each time I have to eject now, I almost smile, because to me it's one step closer to becoming good at this. I can leave a night out happy now because I've learned and I've just had a good night with friends regardless. So, every time I "lose" is just a learning curve.

    This is what Ive been working on for te last week or so since I developed the idea for a change. I've been out the last 4 nights in a row. Only number closed twice after about 20 approaches, but that's the beauty of my new mindset. It doesn't matter. Each time I approach I can tell that I'm getting better. I've pretty much got approaching and opening down. I hit a sticking point in moving on from there, but I'm working on it, again thanks for the advice guys .

    Well, if you read my essay, tank you, I know it wasn't easy xD.

    So, yeah, any thoughts would help. Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Game Plan Revised. Thoughts?

    You've got the right mindset. You'll get there, bro . All I can do is wish you the best of luck.

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    Default Re: Game Plan Revised. Thoughts?

    Thanks, Virgil. I'm seeing a positive in the fact that you had no improvements to make Lol. Seems from what youve said I'm on the right track .

    Once I overcome the sticking point I have now, I know I'll have a different one, and when I overcome that, I'll find another. But that's fine. I guess it's just perseverance in the end.

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    Default Re: Game Plan Revised. Thoughts?

    Congrats on making all of this an extension of you instead of it feeling like a "different you", I think that's a great improvement you made

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    Default Re: Game Plan Revised. Thoughts?

    Quote Originally Posted by Gemini View Post
    Thanks, Virgil. I'm seeing a positive in the fact that you had no improvements to make Lol. Seems from what youve said I'm on the right track .

    Once I overcome the sticking point I have now, I know I'll have a different one, and when I overcome that, I'll find another. But that's fine. I guess it's just perseverance in the end.

    £: GeMiNi :&
    Yeah, I feel the same way. That's why I have quoted myself in my signature.

    'I am now at a point I never thought I would reach, and there are still points I can't imagine being at yet, but I'll slowly break down the barriers one by one and keep reaching every next goal.'

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    Default Re: Game Plan Revised. Thoughts?

    Thanks Mikalichov. I think it's a definite improvement that will help me greatly. I owe my brother (my main wing) for that one lol.

    Yeah, I've seen your signature before in other posts and thought how true that is to me right now. It's kind of inspiring lol.

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