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    Exclamation Help! Confused!!! How to tell her you like her and should you tell her ?

    *time sensitive*

    I will try to keep this short!

    1. Met a girl a year ago through friends, then havent seen her for a few months, i was bored and decided to get her out for drinks.
    2. Few days later we met again, she seemed to really dig me - I really didn't care at the time.
    3. Last 6 weeks, she's been calling and texting and wanting to meetup almost everyday, i've been busy with other things but during this time i've still seen her atleast 3 times a week and i've kinda ran out of excuses to not meet her so often.
    4. For about 4 weeks out of the 6, i've just been doing it cuz shes fun but it felt she has something for me, but about 2 weeks ago i really started to like her but i didnt tell her it.
    5. Now I really like her, and she still wants to do stuff all the time and she even drives over to my place which is a good distance away but there are very akward times where she becomes cold and even sometimes uses the term "leave me alone" (dunno if its playfull or not)
    6. Seems like she liked me and i had her in friendzone and now after this time, i like her and im in the friendzone? maybe? but would she still call and drive the distance to see me if i was?
    7. THE BUMMER: last nite we went to a club with a bunch of friends and she kept acting cold. We were sitting together then she go and sits somewhere else, i later took her to dance but after about 10min she didnt want to, so i ignored it and went to hang out with my male friends. Later on as I was walking around she was talkin to some guy and it looked like they were exchanging numbers, i ignored it and went away. An hour later we talked briefly and i left, and then i saw her what looked like to be exchanging numbers again. FML

    8. I was drunk and it seems I got a few numbers myself last nite but thats kinda after i've seen her do it. what does this mean? What do i do?

    MY PLAN and PLZ GIVE ADVICE!!!!!!!
    : Shes gonna be texting me to hangout today and tomorrow and etc, i was thinkin of keeping my msg or calls short and maybe ignore her a bit and make up some more excuses to not hang out. After a few days I will finally agree to meet, hang out and then either go for a kiss or just near the end tell her causually as if i didnt care "we've been hangin out a lot and i think ur pretty cool, and i really like you" should i also ask if its mutual or just leave it and give her time to go thru.

    *TIME SENSITIVE*

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    Default Re: Help! Confused!!! How to tell her you like her and should you tell her

    All of the things you intend to verbalize are unnecessary. By voicing them you DLV yourself (in this specific situation.)

    She wanted you while you didn't return the favor. That hurts. Now that the tides have turned, she feels vindicated by inducing the same pain upon you. She hasn't written you off if she's still willing to come see you. Now she's trying to make you jealous. You have lost control of the situation. She wants a man who constructs the frame. Be that man. She is waiting.

    Go cold temporarily. Stay cold but keep her on the hook for a week or two. Come back with a power frame that overwhelms her.

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    Default Re: Help! Confused!!! How to tell her you like her and should you tell her

    but how do i come back with this power frame? what should i do?

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    Default Re: Help! Confused!!! How to tell her you like her and should you tell her

    Do what you did at the start and act like you're not interested but still took the lead in asking her out. That's when she wanted you the most. Just put her out of your mind and see if she warms back up to you. Also make sure you know what's going on with her and those other guys. If you let an opportunity slip you by another man will take it so seize opportunities when you can. How physical have you got? If you haven't made a move yet perhaps you should soon. A kiss is a pretty good way of letting a girl know you like her

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    Default Re: Help! Confused!!! How to tell her you like her and should you tell her

    Quote Originally Posted by mustak View Post
    but how do i come back with this power frame? what should i do?
    Here's what I would do:

    For two weeks keep cold contact. When she texts you respond in a friendly way. Don't go out of your way to talk to her first unless she hasn't talked to you in a week. If that happens, send an AFC text: "Hey! What's up?" You can flirt but keep it low profile. No matter what if she asks to spend time together you are too busy. Other plans; other women, whatever. At the end of two weeks invite her over just to hang out and spend some time together. Watch a movie. Let her talk. Do what WD said by not acting too interested. When you're tired of listening to her run her mouth, pounce on her and start making out. No warning, no words, jut start kissing her.
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    Default Re: Help! Confused!!! How to tell her you like her and should you tell her

    I don't think there is anything to add to the above advice, which is some pretty solid advice

    Just to answer your original question: you don't say to a girl you like her, you show it (body language)


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