I will try to keep this short!
1. Met a girl a year ago through friends, then havent seen her for a few months, i was bored and decided to get her out for drinks.
2. Few days later we met again, she seemed to really dig me - I really didn't care at the time.
3. Last 6 weeks, she's been calling and texting and wanting to meetup almost everyday, i've been busy with other things but during this time i've still seen her atleast 3 times a week and i've kinda ran out of excuses to not meet her so often.
4. For about 4 weeks out of the 6, i've just been doing it cuz shes fun but it felt she has something for me, but about 2 weeks ago i really started to like her but i didnt tell her it.
5. Now I really like her, and she still wants to do stuff all the time and she even drives over to my place which is a good distance away but there are very akward times where she becomes cold and even sometimes uses the term "leave me alone" (dunno if its playfull or not)
6. Seems like she liked me and i had her in friendzone and now after this time, i like her and im in the friendzone? maybe? but would she still call and drive the distance to see me if i was?
7. THE BUMMER: last nite we went to a club with a bunch of friends and she kept acting cold. We were sitting together then she go and sits somewhere else, i later took her to dance but after about 10min she didnt want to, so i ignored it and went to hang out with my male friends. Later on as I was walking around she was talkin to some guy and it looked like they were exchanging numbers, i ignored it and went away. An hour later we talked briefly and i left, and then i saw her what looked like to be exchanging numbers again. FML
8. I was drunk and it seems I got a few numbers myself last nite but thats kinda after i've seen her do it. what does this mean? What do i do?
MY PLAN and PLZ GIVE ADVICE!!!!!!!
: Shes gonna be texting me to hangout today and tomorrow and etc, i was thinkin of keeping my msg or calls short and maybe ignore her a bit and make up some more excuses to not hang out. After a few days I will finally agree to meet, hang out and then either go for a kiss or just near the end tell her causually as if i didnt care "we've been hangin out a lot and i think ur pretty cool, and i really like you" should i also ask if its mutual or just leave it and give her time to go thru.