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    Default working on my game...is their an order when to use a neg or time restraint?

    Hey Guys, Im working on my game.

    I know you open up with an opener, but am not sure when to use a neg. Do I use a neg right after I have used my opener?

    Also, do you use a time restrain before the opener or before you enter into a routine?

    Thanks guys, just confused in the order.
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    Default Re: working on my game...is their an order when to use a neg or time restra

    Im confused about the order...like after doing an opener do you immediately go into your routines? see ms like a lot of talking just to get a phone number, especially if one of your routines is storytelling?

    Is their a thread that shows the order of when to use your negs etc?
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    Default Re: working on my game...is their an order when to use a neg or time restra

    After the opener is usually normal conversation. Consisting of DHVs, teasing, and maybe negs.

    Negs are a very delicate and powerful technique which, in my opinion, should be used sparingly. The general rules are only use them on 9s and 10s at a max of 3 negs. Also it is very important to follow your neg with something unrelated so that she doesn't have time to react and it doesn't look like you are waiting for a reaction. If you do then she most likely will blow you out and just curse you out or worse.

    Mind you a neg is simply "noticing she is not perfect." It is NOT teasing (although they are very similar and that's why it's confusing) and its NOT an insult. Here are some examples:

    *After shaking her hand* "You're hands are sweaty....What are you guys drinking? Did you see the fight outside?"

    "Are you're nails/hair real? Oh well they are still nice."

    *Picking an "eye booger" from her face without breaking the story you are telling her*

    " I like you sense of style. What brand is it?"

    "You talk alot"

    Also make sure within the first few minutes you use a disqualifier. Any approach you do will have a hint of you wanting to hit on her or someone in the group. A disqualifier should get them to relax which will effectively allow you to hit on her later. If nothing else it will send mixed signals. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: working on my game...is their an order when to use a neg or time restra

    Thanks it did help.

    Just use the opener and go into your routines (DHV etc.)

    Throw in a neg if you need too.

    Throw in a time restraint in the first few mins.....I think I got it
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    Default Re: working on my game...is their an order when to use a neg or time restra

    Hey Ecko.

    I find a time constraint is also used well in your opener (best with an opinion opener)

    For example: "Hey guys, I need an opinion on something real quick, I have to get back to my friends in a minute" or something to that effect. It really depends how you open.

    Negs seem to have already been covered well lol. Yeah, the best advice is to not overuse them. They're generally just a disqualifier.

    Hope that helped at least a little.

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    Default Re: working on my game...is their an order when to use a neg or time restra

    Yes I agree Gemini. Just remember that an opener is just that. An opener. It's meant to put someone in a talktative mood...with you. And your goal is to sleep with her so you don't want to neg or tease the entire time. You want to eventually reach a "real" level with her where you can build comfort and rapport. The teasing and ballbusting become more scarce and less harsh in this phase.


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