I've been considering paying someone to push me in this area, because I myself don't give myself any accountability when I go out and approach. Today was supposed to be my first day putting everything I learned into practice, boy did I fail epically, I didn't even approach ONCE, I thought about it, hesitated and walked away. So much for my 5 approach a day plan, I always feel like it's easy to talk to a girl since they're flesh and bones just like me, but I make all these excuses about approaching like: there's more than 3 girls, a girl is surrounded by strangers who will laugh at me if she rejects me, what if I come off as weird or creepy. Those thoughts always stop me from following through. What do I do, I don't have the confidence. My goal is to have some fun in my life, since I'm 19 and a virgin I want to have some wild years of sleeping around with beautiful girls and having one night stands. I hope if I get myself together now it's not too late to have the life I want. So what do people charge for mentoring in this area? And can I do this by myself? Or do I need a coach to push me? Much appreciated guys sorry for all the questions.