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    charliesheen92 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is it really worth it to have a Mentor in PUA

    I've been considering paying someone to push me in this area, because I myself don't give myself any accountability when I go out and approach. Today was supposed to be my first day putting everything I learned into practice, boy did I fail epically, I didn't even approach ONCE, I thought about it, hesitated and walked away. So much for my 5 approach a day plan, I always feel like it's easy to talk to a girl since they're flesh and bones just like me, but I make all these excuses about approaching like: there's more than 3 girls, a girl is surrounded by strangers who will laugh at me if she rejects me, what if I come off as weird or creepy. Those thoughts always stop me from following through. What do I do, I don't have the confidence. My goal is to have some fun in my life, since I'm 19 and a virgin I want to have some wild years of sleeping around with beautiful girls and having one night stands. I hope if I get myself together now it's not too late to have the life I want. So what do people charge for mentoring in this area? And can I do this by myself? Or do I need a coach to push me? Much appreciated guys sorry for all the questions.

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    Default Re: Is it really worth it to have a Mentor in PUA

    From personal experience, I've not had an easy time finding a mentor. I suppose it makes sense. The wiser PUAs are a hot commodity and it wouldn't be fair of us to hog them all to ourselves. Better they keep posting great stuff for us to learn from. But I was disappointed to not have a mentor. But I did have another idea...

    I was thinking find some guys that were just starting out, like myself, preferably 18-24, and just start teaching ourselves and each other. Make like a group where we can keep each other encouraged and pass on some valuable info. Anyway, it was just an idea.

    To answer your question, I don't think the better PUAs on this site mentor.

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    Default Re: Is it really worth it to have a Mentor in PUA

    From personal experience, it isn't easy finding a mentor here. I've seen a couple of guys asking the same thing with no replies. I guess it makes sense. There a lot of new PUAs looking for advice and only a few PUAs good enough to teach. It wouldn't be fair for us to hog them. Better they keep posting good stuff for all of us to work for. It was a let down not being able to find a mentor. But I did think of another option.

    Just a brainchild at this point, but we could have new PUAs teach new PUAs. Get a group together and post our experiences, encourage each other, hold them accountable, share some good posts. Just help each other out. Keep it limited to guys who are new to the community and young, like 18-24 or so. If it worked, it'd be pretty cool.

    Any way, to answer your question I don't think the good PUAs mentor here.

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    Default Re: Is it really worth it to have a Mentor in PUA

    you dont need to pay any mentor bro even if you find one.. even if he is there with you, YOU will need to have the balls to go talk to them anyways, or even he approaches them and brings them to you, you still need to talk and still can make a fool of yourself (so its the same problem again but losing cash), its just waste of money IMO.. what you have is actually AA , if you hang out with friends (they usually push you anyways but if they dont), i would try a challenge - give 100$(or how much is a lot if you lose) to a close friend and for every approach you make, he gives 20 back, if you fail to make the approaches you will lose the remaining cash.. also another mistake you might be doing is you just look at HB10's maybe (which will result in more AA?, just approach girls which are average at first and that you will most probs not be attracted that much to them (no, no need to aproach ugly fat chicks :P) just noraml HB 7s first, then move to 8s etc etc..


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