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    ASPiRE2bThebEst is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What is my problem????

    Hi PUAs
    firstly i would like to say that i have great respect for you men. I am new to this and havnt been lucky AT ALL. I feel like i have a calling to be a pua and i know i will be a great one.

    my problems:

    I am considered to be good looking, i am tall and well built. When i go out walk on streets etc if i see a hot girl we always make eye contact. This reassures me of my potential.I go to clubs often and am struggling. Last weekend i got wasted but at the club this chick(about a 6) about a arms length in front of me stared me in the eyes for 3 sec!! and i turned away and ignored her. Other times i grind girls but i call for a wing man and she sees and walks away? i also dont know how to pull in while grinding her and how much rubbing of her ass must be done? i dont really open girls at clubs by talking mostly kinos and thats it. iv picked up that where i stay opening with lines is the better option.

    I aso feel i cannot handel my drink and i act like a asshole this could be the main problem , but i am also unexperienced.

    help

    thanks

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    Virgil is offline Moderator / PUA All Star
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    Default Re: What is my problem????

    Welcome, bro. There's a couple of things you're doing wrong (getting wasted, not opening when locking eye contact, acting like an asshole). This place is full of people willing to help, though. It'd be good for you to read the alpha male threads in the newbie guide. Also, there should be some threads on grinding around if you use the search button.

    Best of luck on your journey!

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    BatMan is offline PUA All Star
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    Default Re: What is my problem????

    There are many things you can do that involve body language when it comes to dancing. Grinding is something I believe a woman should "earn" rather than sneak up behind her and do it. I think it is better to build tension first in dancing before grinding so that way she is REALLY into it and not just getting a kick out of giving a guy a woody for her. And when it comes to loud clubs your best bet is body language and sound bites. Build comfort in quiet areas after dancing like the patio or out front. Then move to a diner.

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    ASPiRE2bThebEst is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What is my problem????

    Thanks for the help , think the best way to start is too listen to myself and learn from mistakes.

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    Default Re: What is my problem????

    Just a quick caveat, but it sounds like your issues are totally inner game stuff. I'm in more or less the same boat . Read up on confidence building techniques, and focus on getting that inner locus/alpha mindset.
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