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    Default Ex is visiting, stay with me in another bedroom.

    My ex is visiting, we talk about boyfriend she just left and how she loves him but he is not the one for her. I no she has something for me still, but she is reluctent to move forward with anything. I know she wants to make love, but she is waiting for me to make the move. I don't want to screw this up, so how do i approach her?

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    Default Re: Ex is visiting, stay with me in another bedroom.

    I can't give specific advice, and this isn't a specific question.

    Obviously she already knows you still want her. Seems to me she is getting her physical needs met by him and her emotional needs met by you. She knows you want her...and is confused. You can help push her your way by pushing her away. Don't be her confidant anymore, don't listen to her bitch about him. Get rude even. "I'm not your shoulder to cry on, that's not what I want from this" etc. And to top it off, even if you are just hanging out with other women it will make her jealous. You don't have to do anything with them (though you should if you get the chance).

    Basically, she knows how you feel about her and is confused/using you just move on in your mental frame, burst her bubble of what you are to her and quit being her puppy, at the very least she will respect you for it. Move on. She knows you want her, if she doesn't see that or act on it then let her do what she wants and move on. Way too many women to be tripping like that.

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    Default Re: Ex is visiting, stay with me in another bedroom.

    Well, you have nothing to lose by "gaming" her, just as you would any other girl you first meet.

    Just flirt & be fun & upbeat.

    You already have some history together, so escalation can move MUCH more quickly if you're confident & she's having fun.

    If it doesn't work out, you're no worse off than before you started, so don't worry about the "outcome".



    Just use this occasion as a way of testing & applying different techniques & see how it goes.

    But again; I'd totally treat this like she was a girl you just met. Start from scratch & work on building attraction.


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    Default Re: Ex is visiting, stay with me in another bedroom.

    Thanks for the advice guys, she has since dump the boyfriend. I'm going down to meet up with her this coming weekend. It's my birthday and she want to take me out, I want to F her, but don't know if I want her back now that I have other options.


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