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    Albachir is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Work at store great opportunity to talk to women but to shy, help!

    Idk what it is but everytime I read advice about picking up women I get confident and believe I can do it but when it comes time to actually approach I freeze up. I work at a grocery store and have many women I could talk to but I just freeze up. Iss so aggravating and I get so frustrated.someone pls help! I'm not a bad looking guy and I always make ppl laugh if any of that helps.

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    Default Re: Work at store great opportunity to talk to women but to shy, help!

    Hey

    You can try this: Don't dress up too nicely (but clean and some nice aftershave). Go to a shopping mall and say "Hi" to women that are passing by. Nothing more then that. I did that 3 times as an AFC and it helped. You'd be suprised, some girls actually stop to talk.
    (It's from the book "The Game" used by Tyler Durden)

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    Default Re: Work at store great opportunity to talk to women but to shy, help!

    Thank you for the advice, I actually just finished reading the game, one of the best books I have read when it came to this. I guess my biggest fear is that if I just approach a woman out of the blue she might think i'm weird or idk, I just over think things. Its weird, I've had multiple relationships with women and I've had sex multiple times, but for some reason now I just get so nervous. Im going to do what u said and see how it works. Anymore advice would be appricated.

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    Default Re: Work at store great opportunity to talk to women but to shy, help!

    Try talking to everyone, including men, to get you comfortable about chatting to strangers. Approach girls without the intention of number/date closing. There's lot of times I walk into a pub and talk to everyone and will even tunes girls and not ask there number. It's fun, especially when there's no pressure. People are attracted to confident people so just have confident happy conversations with your customers. Girls often let you know they are interested. Just need to read those signs. The thrill is in the chase so concentrate on a fun journey and not the destination.

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    Default Re: Work at store great opportunity to talk to women but to shy, help!

    Approaching anyone out of the blue is weird. It always will be. You have to make it "ok" as quick as you possibly can. That's one of the reasons why openers exist. If you think about it, have you EVER had a problem asking a stranger for time? I'm guessing the answer is no. You know why? Because you think it's "ok" to stop for that reason. What if the reason wasn't the time but something else? (an opener). It makes sense if you think about it. You have to drill into your head the idea that stopping someone for WHATEVER reason is "ok".

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    PS: You said you over think stuff. 3 second rule is the anwser.


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