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    qb3489ny is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    I recently went on a date with a girl last week i met at the bar. She was pretty cool we got along great and she wanted to see a movie after. So we went into the theater and she starts holding my arm and so on and she leans in and says here is a piece of gum if we make out later so i took that piece of gum and made out with her right away.She had some balls especially on the first date for that but it gets a little more interesting. Later on in the movie she is playing with my hand holding it etc, then she kisses it.? Never had that happen before then she leans in and says she always wanted to be a lingerie model lol nice. but random? Anyway the movie ended i walked her to her car and gave her a kiss goodbye. But it just doesn't add up. She says the next day that she likes me but she doesn't want to take it fast i understand. Then she says how she needs attention 100% of the time and if she dosnt get it she will go somewhere else. I said alright. So then she goes on and saying over the phone how she misses me a lot and it feels like she known me awhile. I asked her from the last time i saw her till now which was a week if she went on other dates besides me she said yes im like jesus within that week frame? Idk what to do with this girl because then she throws out that she has a big secret that she doesn't want to share with me until she gets to know me and its about her family. She said she just doesn't want me to think she isnt beautiful after she tells me if she tells me? We are suppose to hang out friday but now it seems like she is falling out, doesnt text me much anymore and if she does it ends up being 1 word texts. I feel like im thrown on the rear burner now and she found interest in another man but i have no proof.So uh what should i do ? is this a future crazy? Should i freeze out? Or should i just bail on friday?

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    Default Re: Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    I was actually just reading an interesting article about this. What it said was that wOmen act on emotions. They really don't mean what they say as much as what they do. It could be a shit test. But all I could say is don't back away from her as that is what a beta would do. U can google it and research it urself.

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    Default Re: Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    so should i freeze out then?since she is very short on texts i need a game plan lol

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    Default Re: Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    Just stay true to your own course and like Gmin23 said don't listen to too much of what she says. Hey you made out first date and she wants to be a lingerie model. Who cares if she's crazy or dating or whatever, keep cool, ask her next time what lingerie she's gonna wear for you and enjoy the ride. Have a plan B going to incase she's flippant.

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    Default Re: Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    Sounds like a firefly. Easily distracted by the brightest light. She may want 100% attention but I'm willing to bet that she actually responds to when you give her 50% or below of your attention. She seems completely led by her emotions and no offense, may be into drugs. But that's besides the point. Like what was mentioned above try not to hang too much on her words and look for the underlying emotions of your interactions with her. She will be much easier to interpret if you view her that way. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    Your question was, "Am I getting myself into something I don't want to get into?" Personally, it seems like you are bro. But if you're into going for the challenge, don't let her theatrics phase you.

    I've seen the whole "secret" used to keep people interested or keep them on edge. At the same time, she could actually be an emotional wreck. Tread carefully.

    If she's short over texts, ignore her for the rest of that day. Don't let her feel like she has you on a string. Text her the next day and just be real.

    "I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really
    good together. Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met."
    via HighTower.

    Or something to that effect. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    Hey man. Firstly, I agree with BatMan about she'll probably respod better the less attention you give. Sounds like a sh1t test to me.

    She sounds kinda high maintenance, dude. I'd say give it a chance on Friday, just make your decision then. Like these guys said, it's more what she does than what she says.

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    Default Re: Am i getting myself into something i dont want to get in to?

    No do not freeze out. If the sexual tension is already there without the emotional ur only gna miss out on the next step if u bail on her. Whatever u do do not act on her jealousy shit test wether it is true or not. U want to convey ur a man that can get whatever woman he wants therefore whatever she does doesn't bother you. But demonstrate it by acting that way not by telling her u are not jealous If I were you though I would have a plan b and c if you feel she's going to bail on you as to keep you from feeling stood up that day if she flakes. I wouldn't take this chick too serious though. Sounds like a real pain in the neck no offense to ur chick. But go out there and get sum homie.


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