Here's the run down. For the past 14 years, I've always taken a laid back approach when it comes to women. I'd generally spark a convo, say some interesting things, then wait for them to come to me. While that's worked pretty decently in the past, I'm starting to think its mostly been luck. I mean, I've been with women from both sides of the spectrum. I'm talkin hot russian strippers all the way down to the hefty big chicks you don't want anyone to know about.
I guess my point is this. I'm tired of taking what I can get because of circumstances or the chick just happens to be desperate. I'm tired of losing a womans attention because the guy she initially thought was hot (women tend to think i am) turned out to be an average chump. I want to be the "player" that women automatically assume I am when they look at me. Instead of the hott guy who turns out to be a nice dud.