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    Question My sticking point (rapport)

    What's the best way to transfer into rapport?

    What are some good rapport topics?

    Could you explain rapport in an easy an more understandable way?

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    Default Re: My sticking point (rapport)

    The cube is a good way to build rapport or any fun little psychology test u can also ask quesions such as if u had to pick u're parents from any point in time real or fictional who woul u pick?........
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: My sticking point (rapport)

    Bill's product The Vibe and also his Unleashed Attraction both have amazing modules on building rapport.

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    Default Re: My sticking point (rapport)

    Xavier is right. Cold reads are are one good way to build rapport.

    Comfort and rapport are pretty different when you think about it. Anyone anyone can talk to a woman about her job, where she grew up, her favorite wine, and what goals she has. That's comfort.

    Rapport is simply "a sympathetic relationship"

    Alot of men I notice seem afraid to reach this level with a woman. It requires vulnerability on your part. So usually men just keep teasing her to death and hope they get her into bed. Building rapport will increase these chances drastically.

    One way I like to think is a good way of building rapport is a small technique I noticed women do. After attraction is built and there is comfort my next step is to get to a deeper level with her. So usually we are used to teasing each other at this point so I will capitalize on this and the next time she teases, I will show I'm bothered by it and say "You're mean" in a playful way. Or if I'm feeling bold and have a strong enough frame I will show that I am genuinely upset about what she said. "I'm wondering why you would even say that to me." If you have the comfort and attraction she will be sympathetic towards you and apologize. Then I will tell her sorry isn't enough and find a small task for her to do to make it up to me. Once that is done she is back in my good graces.

    I like this little technique because it gets her use to catering to my mood and apologizing. Which also opens to door for me to be able to apologize once in a while with her as well. If you've ever seen two people constantly fight, break up, and basically cry over each other to get back together then that is what a lot of rapport looks like, to an extreme level.

    It's ok to show you are upset with a woman, but your timing is important. If you do this too early then you're being weird since she doesn't know you. If you do it too late you are still weird because it'll make her feel like "where is this behavior coming from." Hope this helps and good luck.


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