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    Sethx is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with an interesting girl

    We know each other for a long time, i made the first step but she turned me down as she was in a relationship and i guess i didnt bring enough to the table to make her ditch it. After she broke up she started texting and calling me, giving me big IOIs like whenever she met a friend of mine she told him to tell me that she asked about me. I didn't jump right in, she turned me down in the first place afterall, till last week when we went clubbing where we kissed. Since then i felt like the attraction started to fade. She came by a few days ago we just talked and kissed but again i didnt feel her excitement. Now, my mistake, i told her via txt that she has to come with me to the place i'm going to move to and her reward will be me kissing her all over her body and stuff like that. She didnt reply so i sent another message saying that "if that thing scared her she's not right for me as i need a confident woman not a child and it didnt necessary had to mean sex just spend time" and her answer was "honestly speaking i dont know if i want that". I mean seriously, she was chasing me for months now when i gave in she's losing interest. What's there to do, i'd like to salvage this.

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    Default Re: Need help with an interesting girl

    Anyway, she's a hb7-8 but she's really smart and i'd take that over a hb10 w/o brains. And i noticed that this happens to me...i manage to get girls but after we kiss or fuck they start to lose interest. I need to know how to keep the attraction going.

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    Default Re: Need help with an interesting girl

    The text you sent her seems really intense and a bit demeaning. I understand you may be losing patience because she is giving mixed signals, but keep your cool and keep studying pickup. You will start to learn how to interpret what she's doing and won't get so frustrated.

    The way to salvage this will not be any magic one liner we can give you. It seems you got a bit more learning to do so feel free to take a step back from her for a bit until you get better with pickup. Then when you come back she would've moved on from this situation and you will know what to do with calm and coolness.

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    Default Re: Need help with an interesting girl

    So i shouldn't text her back anything? just freeze her out for a while? And what would u recommend me to read...i mean i know i gave her the power when i gave in, and she's testing me, doing to me the things i did to her when i was ignoring her...but it's strange, she was like i "hope u stay in my town over summer break", "how can i get your interest like i did when u made your first move" and things like this

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    Default Re: Need help with an interesting girl

    i was thinking to text her something like "the idea is that i can be a little moron sometimes" which is a bit funny considering our last 2 messages started with "the idea". but it feels like a big dlv

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    Default Re: Need help with an interesting girl

    Don't call yourself a moron. Take the advice above and step backwards, learn some more pickup, then evaluate things.

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    Default Re: Need help with an interesting girl

    yeah...i had already abandoned that idea. would appreciate more on spot info rather than read/learn more, i started doing that. thanks


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