Hey, guys, usually, my instinct has served me pretty well. When girls text with a, "What are you doing right now?" I know I'm getting my dcik sucked later. But recently, I have encountered a situation that confuses me. The apporach is very strange (I am unorthodox, especially when horny LOL)
I walk into a karaoke bar and chat up the owner. I tell him that I wanna sing with girls and if there are any in one of the rooms singing by herself, I'll sing with her and pick up the bill. The owner tells me that unfortunately, it's a slow night, but he took my phone number down and said that he will call me asap next time a situation like that occurs to I can hop on over. He also gives me a number. He said a girl walked in here earlier and gave him her number to be contacted. It's unclear if she was looking for a boyfriend or if she offered a service where she sang with you for like $30 an hour or if she was a prostitute but I was basically fine with any of the above. I call the number and ask her to come out and drink but she says it's too late and she's tired so I ask her out to dinner the next day. She said to text her the next day. I do so, and the next day, she said she doesn't like to eat with strangers! (So why the heck did you leave your number at the sleazy karaoke??) So then I chat-text her for like 15 texts each side, asking her out 3 times. 3rd time, she tells me to just leave her alone. I think I've taken that as far as it will go (I do that) and I tell her good bye as well. But then, 4am the next day, she texts me a "Good night".
Question: Why would a girl do this? Is she interested or not? Usually when a girl texts me "good night" at 4am, that's a done deal but what the heck is going on here? By the way, 4am was 8 hours ago so the situation is live. Prompt responses are appreciated. Thanks!