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    Default want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    what is the best way in doing this. im not a very confident guy, but believe i have potential. i need to know what is the best way in become one of the best pick up artists around???

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    Default Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    has anyone got an idea? experts?

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    Thumbs up Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    First of all, it's all about the confidence. Not that phony confidence, but the real "I talk to women no problem 24/7 at by behest."
    Second, it might work, but don't be a jacka$$. You can be yourself and not some dooshbag who plays them; you can be real and pickup women like a pro, I certainly do. You're a man: be one.
    Third, Learn 'The Matrix' -- there are certain parts of building your social connection to each woman (and also each man, but you're not seducing men are you? )
    I read Neil Strauss' work, and 'The A Game', but the system that worked best for me was The Tao of Badass. I saw a review for it here [ http:\\review.pubko. com\so-im-kind-of-a-badass\ ] first. If you can't pick up women after this, I have no hope for you
    And always, take action and practice on the basics. Just start talking to women who interest you. They might not make sense at times (or ever...) but there are many out there worth the time even if you're not bedding them that first night.
    Just my two cents-- Good Luck out there fazida!

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    Default Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    Its a long rode bro. Most people on this forum are on it. The best thing you can do is have enough of a hunger and drive to become it.

    Change is mental torture on yourself and to become a pua is to destroy yourself, build a new you and then repeat..over and over again. Theres a reason that everyone isn't doing this, because it takes a huge amount of will power.
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
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    Cool Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    Quote Originally Posted by 0Rooster0 View Post
    Its a long rode bro. Most people on this forum are on it. The best thing you can do is have enough of a hunger and drive to become it.

    Change is mental torture on yourself and to become a pua is to destroy yourself, build a new you and then repeat..over and over again. Theres a reason that everyone isn't doing this, because it takes a huge amount of will power.
    Yep, you've certainly made the right first-step, but you need to confirm to yourself that you will follow through and do what is truly required of you. Think of how many guys are dreadful at these techniques.
    Now think of the rest as your competition, and your drive to be better. That's a solid 40% you have to be concerned with. But when you start to put it into play I guarantee you can see results soon. Again, it's all about taking action on what you learn here. We've got the treasure map, you've got to go claim the treasure. Good luck again!

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    Default Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    Like Rooster said, it is a long road to PUAdom (lol). It's like learning any new skill, but it can be more difficult. For instance, you can practise a musical instrument in the privacy of your own home. No one has to hear all the missed notes etc before they hear you do it well.

    With PUA, if you miss a note, so to speak, it's not in private, it is a real human being that you are interacting. On the journey to become good, you will fail (well I call them "learning curves" not failures, but you get the point lol) and when you do, it will not go unnoticed. Other guys will be watching (and probably laughing) as will other girls. The way past this? Brush it off and carry on as if it doesn't matter at all. If I'm in an environment that's too loud to talk like a club and I get a head shake to say no to dancing with me or whatever, I like to laugh ad do a thumbs down sign as if to say "you're no fun" and move on. It doesn't matter, it's a game. The trick is don't get bummed out when you lose that game, if you look back at it you can almost always pick out where you might have gone wrong. You can always learn something from every unsuccessful set. But then you have a successful set and that makes it all worth it.

    My best advice would be:

    Rid yourself of Approach Anxiety, don't get bummed when you get a failed set and learn from it and persevere.

    The great part is you don't have to do it alone. There are loads of great guys on this forum ready to help. I wouldn't have progressed as much as I have without them.

    As Virgil would say, Get the fark out of your comfort zone!

    £: GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    Quote Originally Posted by Gemini View Post
    Like Rooster said, it is a long road to PUAdom (lol). It's like learning any new skill, but it can be more difficult. For instance, you can practise a musical instrument in the privacy of your own home. No one has to hear all the missed notes etc before they hear you do it well.

    With PUA, if you miss a note, so to speak, it's not in private, it is a real human being that you are interacting. On the journey to become good, you will fail (well I call them "learning curves" not failures, but you get the point lol) and when you do, it will not go unnoticed. Other guys will be watching (and probably laughing) as will other girls. The way past this? Brush it off and carry on as if it doesn't matter at all. If I'm in an environment that's too loud to talk like a club and I get a head shake to say no to dancing with me or whatever, I like to laugh ad do a thumbs down sign as if to say "you're no fun" and move on. It doesn't matter, it's a game. The trick is don't get bummed out when you lose that game, if you look back at it you can almost always pick out where you might have gone wrong. You can always learn something from every unsuccessful set. But then you have a successful set and that makes it all worth it.

    My best advice would be:

    Rid yourself of Approach Anxiety, don't get bummed when you get a failed set and learn from it and persevere.

    The great part is you don't have to do it alone. There are loads of great guys on this forum ready to help. I wouldn't have progressed as much as I have without them.

    As Virgil would say, Get the fark out of your comfort zone!

    £: GeMiNi :&
    Not giving a damn is something important to master. I find the trick to that and just brushing it off is to be yourself. Like completely yourself. Don't make up stories that aren't true, don't do anything extra to impress someone, etc.

    Most of all, and this one is important, don't change the way you feel deep on the inside. For example, if you're a nice social fellow who can talk to anyone, don't push that aside to try and feel like you're a sexy, suave man. If you're not being completely yourself, not only will women notice and their respect for you lower, you also won't pass sh1t tests and blowouts. If you're being completely yourself, there is no reason to feel ashamed, come up with excuses, or apologize for anything.

    Besides, something that comes natural for you is far easier to use and to become better at than something that doesn't, which will give you a lot of headache trying to learn. (I wouldn't say that always goes for learning PUA though, a lot of guys have the traits to pick up women, but just didn't know what they want or need to get rid of some social programming. Though some others do seem to be struggling with it).

    Also, when you're approaching a woman, don't think of why she wouldn't want you. Think of why she would want you.

    Oh, and get the fark out of your comfort zone!

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    Default Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    thanks guys. ive started intense reading and practise. ive read the game and watch pandoras box as well as reading the mystery method. i go out 2 to 3 times a week and am really noticing some improvements.

    just a question, not sure on what to do?
    i met this girl, and she was all over me, throwing IOI. however she started talking about the amount of times she has had sex and some of the stuff she has done. afterwards however she told me she has a boyfriend and that she has been seeing him for a year. i had accepted this, however did not know what to do in this situation. im still trying to have sex with her, however am a bit hestitant about the boyfriend. she keeps texting me and talking to me.......
    sont no what to do, any help?

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    Cool Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    Quote Originally Posted by fazida730 View Post
    thanks guys. ive started intense reading and practise. ive read the game and watch pandoras box as well as reading the mystery method. i go out 2 to 3 times a week and am really noticing some improvements.

    just a question, not sure on what to do?
    i met this girl, and she was all over me, throwing IOI. however she started talking about the amount of times she has had sex and some of the stuff she has done. afterwards however she told me she has a boyfriend and that she has been seeing him for a year. i had accepted this, however did not know what to do in this situation. im still trying to have sex with her, however am a bit hestitant about the boyfriend. she keeps texting me and talking to me.......
    dont no what to do, any help?
    This forum is filled with posts like this. But this is one of those thing's where you've got to decide what kind of player you're going to be in "the Game". Some guy's don't touch girls with boyfriends, others couldn't care less. Ultimately, that's a choice for you to make. But I can help you decide...

    Let's look at the pros and cons

    Pros:
    1. She obviously wants you.
    She's given you IOIs. She's brought up sex at least once, and wasn't ashamed of it. And let's not forget, she's still flirting with you!
    2. You've already put in work
    It'd be a shame to lose all your hard earned charming just because of a bf.
    3. Sex is awesome
    You always have to add that. It carries a lot of weight.

    Cons:
    1. She has a boyfriend.
    She's someone else's, at least for the time being. If you close her, you'll be stealing from someone else. Also, he may be bigger than you.
    2. She's not loyal
    She obviously doesn't take committed relationships seriously. If she's willing to cheat on him with you, who's to say that if you two end up together she won't cheat on you with someone else. There's very little trust left and a LTR is probably not in the cards.
    3. AIDS
    She may have them. (Hell I don't know, you make it sound like she's been around.)
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: want to continue mysterys work and become a good pick up artist

    NO shut it down
    Dont let any 1 do anything
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