You know how a girl dresses up and goes out with a friend or two to a night-time event? She dressed up specifically to look attractive and have eyes drawn to her.
Now imagine there is a group of 5 to 10 girls all looking great. It is a little overwhelming to focus on the girl or group of girls in there to talk to. If you get the courage to step up to this group how do you validate them all while gauging you favourite? With all the glitter, make-up, and clothing (or lack there of), it might take some time to find the one girl you are interested in without possibly offending her friend.