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    Default Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    Is it possible girl blaming to have a bf and really doesnt?
    I was thinking was it a shit test or something because this girl is like hb9 at least..

    We met at a party and she hanged with me for few hours, we chatted and made some kino she seemed intrested on every level.
    After the house party we went to a club, i met her there she came sat on my lap and was around all the time, we danced etc..
    After the club, we went back to the house party, everything went well untill she dropped the bomb about having a boyfriend, i didnt belive her because it didnt really seem like it.. I told her u dont seem like it and she was like yea maybe but i wouldnt still do anything.. which made me think more this is like a hint to back off.
    Either ways she came to sleep next to me and we "cuddled" nothing much.. maybe she just wanted some safety because we were in a big place n big party.. or she didnt want me to try her for one night. Those are my thoughts..

    Now were back in town and i have this girls digits but dont know really how to move from here, i was thinking to layback if she really has that boyfriend i dont wanna be in middle of that mess. What you guys recommend? Should i go for this one or just maybe wait for her to come to me and focus on other girls atm?

    I'll add this that the girl is at the moment most intresting and coolest chick i have "around", but the bf thing can be messy..

    What would you guys do at this point?
    Thanks. -PW

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    My preference is to not deal with a woman who has a bf. Its not just a morality thing. The energy you have to input to get her to cheat is not worth the output. Usually if you guys are hitting it off well and she mentions it later, she's probably telling the truth. Compared to saying it within the first few minutes of conversation when she is not attracted to you yet. Just keep in contact and see where it goes. She may be ready to split with the bf and if not then at the least you can make her a pivot. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    Yeah that makes sense i dont wanna mess things up for them if they are serious.
    It can be a big headache for me allso and i belive she will come to me if "things aint right" with her bf.

    I like the pivot idea because yeah this girl has some potential friends for sure

    Thanks for the reply!

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    My opinion is if a woman is doing things such as sitting on your lap then she knows what she is asking for dude. I been there and more than likely she is already cheated on the dude. Now this is from the hit it and go perpective. I see it as a shit test so you can either plow through that or just forget her.

    If you are searching for a relationship then yeah. Forget it. If you are not, then plow through the test.
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    "When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by ridemyr1 View Post
    My opinion is if a woman is doing things such as sitting on your lap then she knows what she is asking for dude. I been there and more than likely she is already cheated on the dude. Now this is from the hit it and go perpective. I see it as a sh1t test so you can either plow through that or just forget her.

    If you are searching for a relationship then yeah. Forget it. If you are not, then plow through the test.
    The thing is that i told her that she does not seem like she is in a relationship, she agreed but replied that she wouldnt still do anything with someone else.. But still ended up in my bed.
    We texted next day few times and she sayed thanks for the evening and that she had a good time.
    But now were in differend envirioment, shes back home and (maybe) with her bf.
    So my chances are to approach from a friendly point of view with small contact and on ease, or maybe to ask her out direct, but then she might back off and it may become akward IF she has that bf.. This is what im thinking now..

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    Dude do you want a relationship or just someone to have sex with? The answer to that decides the route to take.
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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by ridemyr1 View Post
    Dude do you want a relationship or just someone to have sex with? The answer to that decides the route to take.
    I dont know yet, with this girl anything is possible. If shes down only for sex then yeah thats cool for me.

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    Well, I would say just play it cool and plow through that. Normally I dont acknowledge a bf statement if she is showing interest. Just push forward till you hit a wall, the freeze her out and start over. Normally that works for me with plenty of kino. Ive had a chic tell me she didnt know wtf happened because I got her incredibly turned on when she was trying to be good. One time lay but I knew thats all I wanted so yeah. It's all up to what you want to do bro.
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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    Ok guys,

    Now this girl initiate conversation with me last night, we talked via facebook for a good while.. She came to me asking about friends we share. At the end we were talking about her personality, teasing her lil and stuff.

    I can only take this as an a serious IOI.. What u guys think?

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend or not?

    So what happened to the rest of the story?


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