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    somethingaweful is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default When she says maybe

    I ask a girl out for friday and she says something along the lines of "maybe, Ill let you know."
    I have half a mind to say "THis is the part about you thats annoying just say yes or no." I feel like I can say this because I've given her crap for being annoying before etc. What would you suggest I say in this instance.

    Background, we've been hanging out for about a month, see eachother at work but maybe 1once on the weekends. I know shes interested but Im not sure how to work it.

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    Default Re: When she says maybe

    If it were I, I wouldnt blatantly say she is annoying. It can be a tough one to swing. Now given that you say you have teased her about being annoying in the past it can be done with a bit of finese. But not the best option. If she is giving you a maybe I personally would try a Freeze Out to show her you care less if she says yes or no. Thus it is forcing her hand to make a solid decision eventually.

    Another option would be to DLV her so that she wants to go out with you. Without more background information it is fairly difficult to be more specific. If you can provide us with something more, like IOIs you feel she has given you. What sorts of things you guys discuss. Just a little more detailed interactions between the two of you. It would be very helpful.

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    Default Re: When she says maybe

    i say u should either do more dhvs or make a jelousy plote line

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    somethingaweful is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: When she says maybe

    Quote Originally Posted by sinister View Post
    If it were I, I wouldnt blatantly say she is annoying. It can be a tough one to swing. Now given that you say you have teased her about being annoying in the past it can be done with a bit of finese. But not the best option. If she is giving you a maybe I personally would try a Freeze Out to show her you care less if she says yes or no. Thus it is forcing her hand to make a solid decision eventually.

    Another option would be to DLV her so that she wants to go out with you. Without more background information it is fairly difficult to be more specific. If you can provide us with something more, like IOIs you feel she has given you. What sorts of things you guys discuss. Just a little more detailed interactions between the two of you. It would be very helpful.

    well I wasnt sure how interested she was. She would say yes to hang out with me etc but she flaked one time for a legitimate reaso, but she still seems kinda distant. So I told her next date is on her and she actually came through so interest is there but Im not sure what the issue is. She also brought up how she has plans already on saturday but Im not sure if thats her subtly telling me her friday is open or what.

    If she says maybe would you give her kinda an altimatum like well if I dont hear from you by this such and such time thursday Im doing something else on friday?


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