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    Hey guys,
    So basically I befriended this girl this year, and I came down with a bad case of Oneitis. We just became really good friends this year, but I did some really AFC things like texting her long messages and just being overly nice and not letting her come to me and not being an alpha. So when I asked her on a date she said yes, but then she said she wasn't look for anything a couple days later. I haven't talked to her these last two months, and when I have, I acted cocky funny and alpha. If I wait a couple more weeks and then ask her to hang out, do I have a good chance of getting with her? Sincerely Link

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    Default Re: Second Chance?

    There's a possibility there still, depends...

    After your change of attitude, has she been giving out any signs of interest so far?

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    Yeah sort of, but she still has the ball on her court sort of speak, like she said "call me this summer" and she won't contact me, I have to contact her first. I'm thinking I'll wait a couple more weeks, invite her to get ice cream or something, and pull a bunch of a PUA moves and def be cocky funny and see if I get any IOI's does that sound good?

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    Default Re: Second Chance?

    Yes, it does. You're freezing out and coming back alpha, which is the right way to exit the friend zone. Just remember that when she start showing IOIs you're going to have to capitalize on that as soon as possible.

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    In all honesty, I think your gonna need to display some pre-selection. Let her see uu with a girl or two. Get her to come out to some event, or hang out spot and have her thinking its just u and her, but then b there with a girl or 2 and don't even say nothin about it. Just carry on like all of y'all are buddies.

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    She knows that I recently got with her friend, so i could bring that up. I also could talk
    About all the other girls I have gotten with this month. Would that be good? Or is that seen as bragging and it would be considered a DLV?

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    No! Don't blatently bring up other girls. Slip in a story or two about interactions with other girls. Casually, haha

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    Default Re: Second Chance?

    I like CHASladykiller's advice here. You can also upload pictures of you with other pretty women to facebook to show preselection.

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    I will definitely try to slip it into conversation.

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    Default Re: Second Chance?

    Alright thanks for all the advice guys I really appreciate it. I'll keep you updated on what happens.


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