Hey guys, faded here. I'm new here but have been reading here for a little while.
I have a aituation on my hands that im not really sure what to do about it. Let me give you the background info. This was the first girl i talked to, kissed, and farked. I was 18. It happend last december.
So this girl was friends with my roommates brother. Me and my roommate worked at the same place at the time and she i guess had came in and scouted me out. I remember her being there that day but she never said a word because she was shy and lets be honest i was an 18 year old virgin so i obviously wasn't.
So a few days later i have a pending facebook request from her and i accepted it because she was a mutual friend with a few. She liked one of my pictures and said she loves my car. She asked To drive it and i responded that i dont let strangers drive my car. She said "then get to know me" and dropped her number in my inbox. So i started texting her.
I was very distant with her for a the first 10 or so texts. I told her i was going to sleep and she told me to text her the next day so the next day comes and i havent texted her because i wanted to see if she would reinitiate and she did.
We text eachother for 3 days while im out of town. The day i get back she was talking about hanging out and i was 100% down but she kept saying she wanted to bring a friend and i told her no. So then i ended up meeting her to pick her and her friend up at a store and took her friend home. We just drove around talking for an hour and i was exhausted so i said i would drop her off so i can get some sleep.
She texts me maybe 15 minutes after i get home and we start some sexy talk etc. she said she wanted a massage so i was like me too. So she said "come get one" i immediately popped a boner and drove to get a condom then picked her up and took her back to my place. We cuddled and it escalated from her and i farked the sh1t out of her.
At that point in my life i wanted a relationship but told her i didnt want a relationship. She later asked me after the bang if she wanted to be in a relationship and i told her we will see how it goes. Fast forward 2 days we are still texting and i took her to the movies. Went with another couple (my roommate and his girl since they know her and me) needless to say big farking mistake because i couldnt do what i wanted with her without feeling awkward and we still needed more "alone" time to get comfort and build rapport.
So after the movie we go back to our place alone and just watch tv and she starts hinting shes gotta go so i asked whydoesnt she just sleep here and she said shes gotta be up early so i took her home. I asked her if she wanted a relationship and she said not right now and i was totally digging this chick so i went total afc saying she said the other day etc. we got into a little fight i guess it was but she quit texting me for a few days. Being an afc i was trying to initiate contact and either got 1 word or no responses.
I said fark it and continued to live my life and party with my friends. One night im completely farking drunk and she texted me. One of my friends had my phone to play music and texted her "why are you such a whore" so she freaked and i explained to her it wasnt me and she kept freaking so my drunk ass is like panicking and trying to call lol. She also said she was texting me that night to see if i would want to be in a relationship with her
I figured it was through so i went on with life and she texted me maybe a week after it asking what was up and i said nothing and she didnt text me ever again.
Now ive still got the girl added on my facebook so shes known everything ive been doing the last 8 months and ive been having blast if i say so myself. Now during this time period i started reading on game and quickly learned what went wrong and what i should have been doing etc. i have eliminated my AA and have gotten a few lays and over 10 girls in bed with me in this time.
As far as the girl goes she met a dude and got engaged but broke up last month. Since then i have been thinking about reinitiating contact with my new gaming skills. The other day out of the blew she went through my photos and one album i have from miami has over a 100 pictures and she "liked" the only picture of me out of those 100. Which tells me she is interested because that is kind of how we got things started the first time.
As of right now im chasing other girls looking for a relationship but if i dont see them as relationship material i just hit it and quit it. I will do this until i find the right chick. As far as this girl goes i would want her as a sex buddy and nothing more. I already know shes not relationship material but she was a good fark.
So i kind of want to see what you guys think about this. Should i just "like" one of her pictutes and see how she reacts? Or should i initiate contact? I was thinking the push pull would be helpful in this situation but i want to see what you guys think.
Edit: damn didnt realise this was so long but enjoy the read lol