Hey man. That absolutely sucks! Sorry about that situation. I'll never get why girls do all this leading on crap. Honestly, I think the mistake was not what you texted, but how you responded when she rejected the text. That has sh1t test written all over it. You, sir, are an alpha male, you are unapologetic. I would have responded something like "calm down, I'm just kidding, don't flatter yourself . we're friends, I don't see any reason to be uncomfortable".
I understand that your situation was trickier because of the proffessional side of things. But, she fared that up, not you. If she's gonna flirt with you all that time, what does she expect?
£: GeMiNi :&