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    Red face Went too far too soon with HB10

    In the past I've only had short relations with 5s and 6s, but I want some 10s now. So i've been reading and practicing gaming for about a month.

    I've known and worked with this one HB10 model/dancer/actor for a year, I've been attracted to her but had never expressed interest.

    Last week the two of us were alone at my place for an hour working on our project. It was very relaxed, so I decided to flirt. She responded very positively and gave me plenty of IOIs. I started to feel a bit shy and wasn't able to get much kino. Later that night she called me up and we had long phone conversation about our project, but the conversation had tons of sexual subtext.

    The next morning I did the stupidest thing -- I text flirted with her, and she led me on, and it was playful. I should have pulled back and resisted, but instead I asked her to "bring that fine ass over" to my place. To that she said that she's disappointed in me and that she only wanted a professional relation and doesn't feel comfortable working with me. I got afraid cause if she stops working with me then I'm going to lose tons of money. So I quickly sent her a long desperate apologetic text. I haven't spoken with her since then cause she's been out of the country. She's coming back next week.

    Is it possible to turn this around and get back in control? If not how do I fix it and get her to feel comfortable so that she'll at least finish the project.

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    If it is true that you would lose a lot of money if she is unhappy, then you may want to consider keeping it a platonic relationship. No woman is worth that kind of headache where you feel you have to send a desperate text to keep her from screwing up your project. There are plenty of HB10s you can go after. This may not be what you want to hear, but understand that one of the things you learn in PUA is to have standards. And I believe messing around with co-workers or teammates should be on that standards list, since it is very risky.

    My suggestion is to not put any more pressure on the situation by talking about it any further. And "convincing" on your part will only drive her away. Focus on keeping a light and fun vibe and that you are no longer phased by the situation. Start talking to other women to help keep you distracted. Keep business as business.

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    In the words of t-pain and jamie fox "blame it on the alcohol.

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    I wish I could blame it on the alcohol this time. Anyways, I think I'm going to just relax and act natural around her. And if she's not acting natural or being weird then I'll just drop Mystery's line "I feel like I've revealed all my cards to you. I don't think I can talk to you anymore" and see what happens. Cause i think that line if delivered right will either get her to try and convince me that it's ok or she'll just stop seeing me as someone trying to attract her and hopefully it'll get comfortable again. What do you guys think?
    In any case this is the last time I game co workers lol, no more gaming at work place, learned my lesson.

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    no dumb@$$ just lie and say it is was drunk texting!!! why cant you do that???

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    You can say that thetreadz. My recommendation is to immediately follow up with a topic about business so there is no awkward pause incase she responds in a negative way. Good luck my friend.

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    @kino911 I'm not sure if this interaction took place over text. If not then he most likely won't be able to say it was alcohol since she would've known if he was drinking if she was in front o lf him. If this was all done thru text then I see your point.

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    Quote Originally Posted by thetreadz View Post
    The next morning I did the stupidest thing -- I text flirted with her, and she led me on, and it was playful.
    he did text her, but even if he was talking on the phone he could still claim being a little tipsy

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    I just don't see how it's worth the risk if you could lose money if things get weird...

    i attended a fund raiser a year ago...i had two girls IOI'ing me....i went after one of them and left the other one alone...i regretted it and thought about contacting her sometime after...

    today(year later) she became a client w/ my business so I'M SOOOOOO glad i didn't mess w/ her......it would have been fun but not worth the cash the business relationship would generate....

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    Default Re: Went too far too soon with HB10

    Yes, the conversation did happen over text, but I can't say I was drunk or tipsy because she knows I've been alcohol & drug free for 3 years now (kinda proud of it actually!). And she in fact saw me entering the studio 20 minutes after the last text.

    So, once I realized that if she stops working on my project then I'd lose money, I decided to have a backup plan -- so I got 2 more model/actors who can replace her in the project. So in case she says she doesn't want to work then I wont get totally screwed, I'd get set back by 2 weeks, but the project will still succeed. But I'm not going to tell her about the backup idea unless she actually leaves.

    So I think I'll go with Mystery's line, and then just ease into some professional talk, and build comfort. But if in the worst case she doesn't feel comfortable working with me, then she won't be forced to stay. And I think that should ease everything up for both of us.

    Honestly, I did a big mistake, but I don't think she's really going to leave the project. However, professionally, I just have to be prepared for the worst.


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