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    Default find ioi's then unintressed

    hi guys, yeah so i was at this party and this chick first time we met said i was hot and she came to me hold my hand sit in my lap and hugging me, and this was not just because she could she rly liked it, so i got many ioi's got her number, when i was leaving she stood up fast and begged for a hug, i hugged her and went off, in the morning she texted me hi do u remember me, and i was like no ?! and then haha ofc i do just kidding we keep texting just whats up how are u doing fun last night did u hug and cuddle with me cause u were drunk she said no yadyada just bullshit talking. now i got no ioi's from her texts or whatever. havent text her for a few days and she had sent me nothing,
    in my opinion if she held my hand hugging me thinking i was hot, she would have texted me and wanting to see me or so. so dont u think its abit wierd? need help on this she is rly cute and sexy body! thanks in advance. Erixzon!

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    Default Re: find ioi's then unintressed

    I do not think it's weird.... Let me explain

    When people are in social atmospheres like parties, concerts, bars, etc... Everyone around them is typically hooking up or having fun. Yes she may have found you attractive. However, just because there was IOI's initially means nothing. That was at the moment.

    The moment is full of the feeling associated with that night. So she probably grasped onto you because she wanted that feeling. You should of done something more that night from all the IOI's you are saying she is giving you.

    Secondly, from the brief summary of your text exchange, they seemed mundane and boring. They are what EVERY OTHER GUY would say. You have to stand out.... I would recommend reading Magentic Texting by Bobby Rio. Really helpful. To be brief on it... I can send a girl literally 3 texts, set up a date, flirt in those 3 texts, and have her interested in me.... You have to stand out from the boring "how are you", "how was your night" texts. That is not fun. You should throw in funny jokes/inside jokes. Create a sense of connection with her. Also, you come off needy saying "do you remember me". This screams, I hope you remember me because I remember you. Another thing you shouldn't of said is "did u hug and cuddle with me cause u were drunk." Who cares why she did, she did. Thats the bottom line.

    You MAY be able to salvage this. Text her with something funny or crafty and not "hey how are you...".... Ask her this... "On a scale from 1 to awesome... what are your pillow fighting skills like?" .... I have used this and always get a response of some sort,,, It also shows u are funny, and... you are putting a picture of a bed and pillows in her mind

    STAY AWAY FROM BEING BORING WITH THE SAME BS TEXTS... stop asking how her day was... thats for afterwards... also, don't text ALL day (if u did)... Keep them limited and end them on your accounts. Also... you should of set up a date in your text exchanges.

    If a girl is all over you at a party... make something out of it. Why stop at exchanging numbers or holding hands? That's for 14 year olds. You should of flirted back with more than that. Read up on some more gaming things... There isn't a quick answer because from what it seems, theres thing you need to work on in regards to your game, flirtation skills, and your texting skills

    Again, I am NOT trying to be rude. This is just honest advice. I'm decent at what I do.

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    Default Re: find ioi's then unintressed

    Unfortunately Mr8Hyde6 is right on so many levels. But don't worry next time you'll know better. From the beginning you should have brought your value up lightly by saying something like, " hey hey every time you touch me its going to cost you five dollars"...or "its funny how all these chicks want to touch me tonight...but don't worry i KINDA like you so ill let you sit on my lap for NOW... From there you could taken it to the next level by telling her things about herself, making your self INTERESTING... then touch her and analyze her response to your touch...to be honest the easiest way to keep a girl for a long time is to take the momentum of the night allll the way to a physical connection. Then she would have asked you to meet up the next morning instead of saying hi.
    Last edited by KristiBell; 06-29-2012 at 07:59 AM.

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    Default Re: find ioi's then unintressed

    thanks this really helps out, i will surely read the rext magnetic game u were talking about, the really things i lack is confidence to take those ioi's and do something good out if it, i actually have a mindset telling me " she dont want you" so its hard for me to take them iois into something good (i guess im to afraid to get denied) And to be alpha i just dont know how i can get more alpha... needed tho. thanks for your advices!

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    Default Re: find ioi's then unintressed

    You'll do fine my friend. Mistakes are experience which build a stronger character and you will get more confident as time goes on. She gave you very forward IOI's and that's good. The problem is that if you lean back and let her do this, then she is leading the interaction and you are not really establishing you are challenge. Just a "toy" she can play with until she is bored.

    Also you may want to try changing your mindset from "she doesn't want you" to "I know she wants me, but so far she hasn't shown me anything unique about her so I am not sold yet." I know that forward women can put you on guard and can feel like a trick, but just be a challenge and REALLY get her interested on a deeper level and not be just a hot guy at a party. Hope this helps and good luck.


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